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How do I show affection to people I’m not into sexually?

Postby TheMagicGuy1 » Wed May 16, 2018 7:09 am

Didn’t know what section to ask this in.

But I have a hard time showing affection to friends and family.

The only person I show affection to is my girlfriend because I view affection as a sexual thing. To cuddle and hug and kiss, and say sweet things and I love you, at least for me, is soemthing you do with your partner.

I have a hard time giving my mom a hug or a kiss on the cheek. It just feels awkward. I end up just saying I love you guys to my parents and that’s it.

Anyone else feel like this? Is this normal? Or what does his mean?
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Re: How do I show affection to people I’m not into sexually?

Postby SerenityAndWellBeing » Mon May 21, 2018 11:44 am

This is not something unusual, it depends a lot about how affection was expressed in your family. And this is affected by how affection was expressed in their family and so on. It is about intimacy and fear and shame in expressing it. It is not a must or necessarily better hugging or kissing all the time the family members. Saying i love you is actually already important and one thing that is not done and expressed in many families.
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