Was a T-shirt i was given as a kid and by too many was told I was out of control. But, i wasn't.
Not even necessary to come up with rationales for whatever chaos exploded around me, as it was pretty obvious to anyone with eyes, what the causes were. So, it's not like it really was my fault. Not that I am blaming, precisely, but sort of. Sure, there were other choices that could have been made, but that would not have been in my best interest, so why would I make them to make others "happy?" Doesn't make sense, does it?