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Lost so much money on a shady bussiness

Postby bellic007 » Sun Oct 24, 2021 9:57 am

I had impulsively spent big amount of money on my exfriends food bussiness out of False hope given to me.
This person decieved me into spenting lot of money so that he gets incentive by reducing his investment.This person spent only half the amount of money I spent on the bussiness.So literally this person was scamming me by providing false investment details .this guy thought I was little bit emotional and I am easy to manipulate.so he persuaded me and then after 3 months this guy dropped his bussiness.The lose on his part was very less and I lost most of my money on this bussiness.i felt so sad and lost my self confidence.in between this bussiness this guy also threatened me and also physically abused me for being verbally abusive towards him.I was verbally abusive because I felt cheated by this person,and I lost my nerves on this person.but this guy tried to beat me up for showing up my emotions and said to me I am emotional for no reason and all.
I complained about him to the authorities and managed to get little money back as a form of compensation.ecen though I struggled infront of authorities to give proofs and evidences against thus person.As I heavily trusted this guy and thought that guy will never cheat me.but he did for money.he cheated me for my money and he risked my financial security for his selfish gains.he still was angry at me for being verbally abusive towards him as he thinks I should have never reacted to him.that I should shut my mouth and leave the scene when my money is gone.
I had lost hope in friendships and all.i know everyone out there is chasing after money.and they are figuring out how to cheat others and feel so rewarded doing so.i felt alienated and hurt for spenting a lot of my father's money on this shady bussiness.still I grieve over that everyday.
I took some therapy especially for this,I already had depression and dissociative disorder and this just made the condition more worse.nkw I felt like I never want to leave my house as the only thing that came to my mind was memories of this Bussines ..
I sometime had so worse thougts to attack this guy but then I regulate msyelf to not become a crazy person.I think I am gonna become a psychopath if I continue sitting inside my home and thinking about this particular person and the incidents.
Still I find it difficult to forget about this..I am slowly recovering by studying or learning new things.i started to see some videos on legit bussinesses.like stock marketing and all.that gives me hope.that oneday I too will be able to make some money without losing to deception or scam.
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Re: Lost so much money on a shady bussiness

Postby jaus tail » Thu Nov 11, 2021 6:41 am

sorry to hear that. i had similar incident where i had loaned 670$ to a cousin who wasnt returning. he blocked my on watsapp. when i demanded my money, he yelled at me.

i asked his mom for it, she too blocked me.

it was only later when she was dying of cancer, did she return the money. when i told the cousin that i felt cheated by home, he again scolded me as if he's done a favor on my by returning my money.

ive learnt to never give money to anyone. unless ur my child, i'm never giving money to you, and if i'm giving, i'll give directly to the person to whom i have to give money.

if someone is really concerned about investment for their business, they should approach banks.
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Re: Lost so much money on a shady bussiness

Postby bellic007 » Sun Nov 21, 2021 4:54 am

jaus tail wrote:sorry to hear that. i had similar incident where i had loaned 670$ to a cousin who wasnt returning. he blocked my on watsapp. when i demanded my money, he yelled at me.

i asked his mom for it, she too blocked me.

it was only later when she was dying of cancer, did she return the money. when i told the cousin that i felt cheated by home, he again scolded me as if he's done a favor on my by returning my money.

ive learnt to never give money to anyone. unless ur my child, i'm never giving money to you, and if i'm giving, i'll give directly to the person to whom i have to give money.

if someone is really concerned about investment for their business, they should approach banks.


Yeah it was a bussiness cult,where fear and guilt is used to manipulate investor..I was love bombed by the impostors and cheated me after taking my investment.when I started to question about the Bussiness they portrayed me as negative and blamed me for being lazy..they had such a tactics that they tried over many times.they know how to make someone invest by giving false promises and they also know how to threaten investors and exile them from bussiness when bussiness falls..they also know how to put every blame on the investors and not the person who gave false promise .
When I entered the Bussines some of the per devil's there fund my antidepressant consumption.he immediately reported that to his cult leaders and after that incident I saw that cult members start to lose interest jn me..for them they want people who will do dirty bussiness for the cult and when they identify my depression,they judgd me as not capable to carry on the Bussiness myself..
Then they threatened me to invest more on their Bussiness..and they even started indirect physical threats and one time tried to invade my place of stay ..
I am sad because I was unable to break free from the cult after entering,as the indoctrination was so big..they actually created a whole web if lies infront of me to manipulate me..and the saddest thing is the main traitor was one who I considered as my friend.this guy was all with me through thick and thin for over 1 year and this same guy has betrayed me by exploiting my life situation..this gguy was the one I shared my saddest things with.this guy know my life was a mess and he also know that I should invest money if I am manipulated about returns..
I am still thinking why there are so many greedy bussiness cults around world..why they indoctrinate desperate young people.why they choose to hurt someone who has nothing left in him to be hurt.

But after that situation I have now little bit knowledge about ehats a fake bussiness and lear d more about cult indoctrination and deception.I also had some negative influence from being a member of that cult but I am slowly recovering...
I also start to invest in stocks as I think stocks are more legit that spenting money in this illegal and bad bussiness..it's a dhame that such bussiness exists and they destroy the ethics of bussiness..

I am quoting some words I heard about betrayal..
There are person who is ready to destroy you for seeing a light of hope themselves.
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Re: Lost so much money on a shady bussiness

Postby jaus tail » Sun Nov 21, 2021 10:38 am

I am sad because I was unable to break free from the cult after entering,as the indoctrination was so big..they actually created a whole web if lies infront of me to manipulate me..and the saddest thing is the main traitor was one who I considered as my friend.this guy was all with me through thick and thin for over 1 year and this same guy has betrayed me by exploiting my life situation..this gguy was the one I shared my saddest things with.this guy know my life was a mess and he also know that I should invest money if I am manipulated about returns..
I am still thinking why there are so many greedy bussiness cults around world..why they indoctrinate desperate young people.why they choose to hurt someone who has nothing left in him to be hurt.

they do it for money. docs, engineers, movie-business folks, teachers.. unfortunately there are scams and fradulent people in every industry. when we are going through a difficult phase in life, any friendship seems heaven. even i thought the guy whom i loaned money--- this guy was my best friend n he'd help me recover. i never recovered and the more i look back, the more angry i get for being nice to him.

But after that situation I have now little bit knowledge about ehats a fake bussiness and lear d more about cult indoctrination and deception.I also had some negative influence from being a member of that cult but I am slowly recovering...

we can trust only very few people in this world :( many people are out there to get you. i learnt to never loan money to any random person. never ignore any warning signs/red flags.

I also start to invest in stocks as I think stocks are more legit that spenting money in this illegal and bad bussiness..it's a dhame that such bussiness exists and they destroy the ethics of bussiness..
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I am quoting some words I heard about betrayal..
There are person who is ready to destroy you for seeing a light of hope themselves.

they are predators who enjoy preying on others. it gives them sadistic pleasure.
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