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I’m scared my boyfriend will kill me

Postby ijustwannabenormal » Sun Feb 10, 2019 1:11 am

He just applied for a gun and since he has no criminal record + is employed, I think he’ll get accepted. I don’t know what he’s planning to do with it, but he signed up for one after an argument between me and him. I don’t know if he’s planning to kill me or himself. I don’t know why people want to own guns anyway when they’re only killing machines. :cry: we just argue all the time even though I love him and want to be with him, he just keeps twisting my words and accusing me of bad things I just can’t fight anymore. I want out but at the same time I really like him and don’t want to be alone again.
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Re: I’m scared my boyfriend will kill me

Postby Guinevere99 » Fri Apr 19, 2019 6:47 am

Seek a therapist now and strongly consider ending the relationship under your therapist’s support. You do not trust him and communication is absent or toxic, it seems. Being alone does not have to mean lonely.

Couples therapy may help, if you are both willing to go and want to salvage the relationship.

Ask about the gun...why he is buying it, will he be taking safety lessons, will it be kept in a lockbox, etc. People own guns for various reasons but your relationship sounds unhealthy, at best.

You may be jumping to conclusions, but communicate with him about this, the gun purchase. What is your plan of action? For your own safety and your concern he is suicidal?

Ball is in your court. Stay in or get out. Take care.
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Re: I’m scared my boyfriend will kill me

Postby Maze4200 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 3:39 pm

If this is your first thought when he is buying a gun I would probably leave the relationship as soon as possible ... it doesn’t sound Heathly at all and for those thought to come in to your mind there must be something there
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Re: I’m scared my boyfriend will kill me

Postby Snaga » Thu May 14, 2020 4:22 am

Did you ask him, his reasons for obtaining a firearm?

A lot of people did last month, over Wuhan Coronavirus fears of civil unrest.
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