penis fetish. MAKE IT GO AWAY

I'm 22 years old, male, married, and have a penis fetish. I don't like anything else about men, just their penises. I've been with several men and feel really bad about it. I already know
I'm a sex addict. I just want to stop having this craving for penis. When I was 13, my very first sexual experience was being talked into sucking off my friend (or thought he was a friend). Do any other males out there have any experience with penis obsession?

you are bisexual refusing to come to terms.

personally i will not think of it as a problem.

if my husband cheats on me with a man i am ok but not a woman.

i dun think you are having problems. but just need to come to terms or seek someone to help you come to terms.

I think binary oppositions such as straight-gay and blanket labels like bisexual to encompass the whole grey area in between are useful for simple minds, but omit to consider the infinitely versatile nature of human sexuality. As you say, you're not into men, you just like penises. I don't think this is particularly strange. Many straight guys prefer to watch porn that features a man (or at least a penis) doing a woman rather than two women together. It's not a massive leap from that to getting excited about the idea of a penis becoming aroused and ejaculating without actually being attracted to men. My own attraction to men is negligible, but the thought of the above can be quite a turn-on. I certainly wouldn't adopt a label of bisexual though. That would just be pandering to the need of simple minds to have everything neatly classified for their own comfort.

GinaSmith wrote:I think binary oppositions such as straight-gay and blanket labels like bisexual to encompass the whole grey area in between are useful for simple minds, but omit to consider the infinitely versatile nature of human sexuality. As you say, you're not into men, you just like penises. I don't think this is particularly strange. Many straight guys prefer to watch porn that features a man (or at least a penis) doing a woman rather than two women together. It's not a massive leap from that to getting excited about the idea of a penis becoming aroused and ejaculating without actually being attracted to men. My own attraction to men is negligible, but the thought of the above can be quite a turn-on. I certainly wouldn't adopt a label of bisexual though. That would just be pandering to the need of simple minds to have everything neatly classified for their own comfort.

I watched a video about sexual cues a while back, and the dude explained a lot of straight people have an obsession with their own penis and others because they're most familiar with the pleasure it gives and what ticks it off. In other words, seeing someone elses penis getting sexually stimulated makes it easier to imagine yourself getting sexually stimulated. If you're not attracted to masculinity, it's unfair to call you bisexual, since fetishism that bruises the area of sexual orentiation should not be treated as absolute.

justaguy842 wrote:I've been with several men and feel really bad about it.

You shouldn't. Whatever your reason for arousal, you should not be ashamed of it. Just enjoy yourself.

Of course, if you're doing it behind your partner's back then you should stop, and speak with her about what you like about a man's penis. You may be nicely surprised.

A fellatio fetish is relatively safe by comparison to anything you could get AIDS from and die. The
health risk advisory for fellatio is that it could possibly give you herpes which is incurable and often very painful but not fatal which is why it's illegal for anybody but consenting adults and something you shouldn't hide from your sexual partners because it could risk giving them herpes too or in
some cases get them involved in expensive legal disputes over why you got selected for a job as a White House staffer for certain Presidents over somebody with seemingly better qualifications. The problem with defining anybody's sexual identity by a fellatio fetish is that fellatio is not really
sex anymore than masturbation is sex. Sex is an inherently unsafe act necessary for reproduction
unless you can afford artificial insemination of a host mother. I'm all for people risking death by
AIDS to produce more future taxpayers to help pay for my wife's social security which is a fine and
noble act of heroism for a worthy cause and I certainly wouldn't want to put any sort of a label on
anybody that might discourage them from attempting fatherhood. I've never had a fellatio fetish
but I do enjoy sucking on cigarettes which is a more expensive and less healthy oral gratification.

Weirdly enough I can very much relate to this.,When I was 11 I had a similar experience. I never had romantic feelings for other males...just females. It really feels like a fetish because I have another one and both are very similar. I'd say I'm straight though. I'd never want it back doors just you know...