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Quite BPD - Signs and Singals

Postby SubZeroX » Fri Oct 16, 2020 9:59 pm

Hi all,

I had a relationship with a girl which ended about exactly four years ago. Although I had two relationships after that, no girl was able to keep up with those intense moments I had with that girl. I did the mistake and checked her social media which I didn't look up for almost two years. I have seen that she has married and with a child.

Unfortunately, exactly that has triggered the memories. Jealousy was a major topic in our relationship as well as many drama scences - too many. Writing out everything would explode this topic but more than many times I had the feeling that I can choose between getting caught in a trap or getting exploded by grenade. She seemed to fit the characteristics of the Borderline Pattern with the exception that she never painted me that black that she blocked me (she did once the relationship was over) and she almost never screamed - instead it was more a guild tripping.

In order to be honest, I feel that there are still so many questions and I am still seeking answers. On ther other hand - after checking her social media - I have the impression that I am the "bad" guy as it seems to work out with the other guy ?

I talked to family & friends who know me well and for them she is just crazy and I should forget her but for some reason it is still beating me up.
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