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Aspie man initiated sex first

Postby wildrosette » Fri Sep 11, 2020 3:16 am

Hello I am new to this forum. After reading about Asperger Syndrome I got it that sex is not something they quite looking forward to and unable to enjoy as an NT do. Now this man in mature age highly functioning and regularly taking medicines as he is also a physycian. He labelled himself as extreme Aspie/Autistic. We met online not in a dating site, some chats and he asked to meet. First I refused, second attemp he could not make it, third we finally met. After some drinks and bablings he said he wanted to hug me he uttered this 2 or 3 times. This lead to sex. Sex is good almost amazing. He catered to my needs.

Anyone please tell me what is this anomally? And I wonder what he thinks now after our encounter?
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Re: Aspie man initiated sex first

Postby wildrosette » Fri Sep 11, 2020 11:24 am

Hello I am new to this forum. After reading about Asperger Syndrome I got it that sex is not something they quite looking forward to and unable to enjoy as an NT do. Now this man in mature age highly functioning and regularly taking medicines as he is also a physycian. He labelled himself as extreme Aspie/Autistic. We met online not in a dating site, some chats and he asked to meet. First I refused, second attemp he could not make it, third we finally met. After some drinks and bablings he said he wanted to hug me he uttered this 2 or 3 times. This lead to sex. Sex is good almost amazing. He catered to my needs.

Anyone please tell me what is this anomally? And I wonder what he thinks now after our encounter?


I read this very helpfull article https://www.theneurotypical.com/how-to- ... rgers.html
Well he may be just using me for sex or expecting to gain something else. I am not hurt since he
is sick also when I decided to have sex I was fully concious and ready if it turns out to be a one night stand only.

Appreciate any comments.
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Re: Aspie man initiated sex first

Postby Snaga » Fri Sep 11, 2020 3:08 pm

After some consideration, this topic has been moved to the Significant Others forum, more typically the forum for people involved with those who have mental health issues.
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Aspie, depression and hallucination

Postby wildrosette » Sun Sep 13, 2020 7:39 am

Pardon me if I misight this and already posted somewhere here.
My friend is diagnosed as an Asperger comorbid with clinical depression. In his younger age he was unable to differentiate which one real ppl and which one just his hallucination. Now as he matured and taking medicines, he can tell which ones.

Is hallucination common in this condition?

He has his coping ways and so far seems it goes well. Do you think this coping system will help him especially from suicide ideazation? Honestly I am very worry.
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He tried to sexually satisfied me

Postby wildrosette » Sun Sep 13, 2020 11:02 pm

Yes he did and he did it well.
Being an extreme Aspie comorbid Clinical Depression and Psychotic, is this even possible?
Or did he so well copying it from movies? Still he held it and ejaculated only after he asked me if I got satisfied enough already. Can he feel other person emotion? What happened here?
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Re: Aspie man initiated sex first

Postby Snaga » Mon Sep 14, 2020 4:05 am

wildrosette wrote:Is hallucination common in this condition?


Not at all, to my knowledge- in fact, Asperger's is not at all something that I would associate with hallucinations. No Aspie I've ever known, has expressed a problem with that. Whether he has Asperger's or not, there's more going on than just that.
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