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Behaviour

Postby Asta » Mon Jul 13, 2020 2:16 pm

Can anyone advise about this behaviour (below)

I hope the way I communicate it makes sense to what is happening. Here Goes:-

"when someone starts conversation in Skype say, you reply in skype, and the person replies to your reply in skype using whatsap, you go back to check conversation in skype to see what you replied to - it had been deleted just leaving your reply."

It feels like some psychological game going on.

I've told the person straight, I'm not interested in cross messaging conversations like this as it leaves things open to mis understandings.

When questioned why deleting what they posted, the reply is "the conversation gets too full"

This has happened previously in Viber and I decided to leave groups in viber and actually not use viber any more.

I really do get disturbed by this kind of behaviour.

Grateful for any insight people may have.

I am unsure if NPD or if some other psychological game playing.
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Re: Behaviour

Postby Asta » Mon Jul 20, 2020 8:39 am

I've been isolating for 4 months (sheilding) the safe place I could go was family members garden, I went first time in 4 moths, took my own coffee and wipes just so I could have a chat. During the conversation I was spoken down to (something that happened before lockdown as well and on previous occasions) when I object to the bad behaviour, I get accused of the one in the wrong and so now I have lost the one safe place I could visit. Its like you dare complain and you will be punished, put up and shut up sort of thing. I don't want to put up I need any time with people to be quality time without aggro as it seems this year I will have little contact or outings because of the pandemic and because I am high risk category. I feel a bit upset about things just now. Grateful for any advice or resolve.
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