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Disorgonized Family

Postby MrInnerPeace » Wed Dec 25, 2019 3:08 pm

Hi. Since, I have been young I lived in a chaotic environment. Today it is Christmas and my family is heading toward destruction day after day.

My dad follows the same routine over and over and when things go sour :" it the devil fault ". My sister got recently a baby and took an husband and for a while she got quite angry and violent everynow and then taking all the things in the world personnally and shout and hurt her husband quite frequently even on a day such as Christmas. I have moved from the house a while and now I notice more and more of these things and It makes me sad to notice that these things happen. My dad is indifferent and as always he will says that it a devil doing stuff and when I propose that we talk it or go see a profesionnal, he says that it not the Christ way and that I am like Satan and that I believe in God but I follow a humane way yada yada yada. Im here to cry for help to find a way to help them. My sister is so violent now and then and I am afraid that she will hurt her baby. I doubt that my family can help her as she continues to grow more violent over the days. I am a bit away now since I have been living in the metropolitan area , but I want and need to find a solution. I am tired of seeing us go into abyss. If you could help me find a plan of action I would be grateful.

Merry Xmas to all.
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Postby Manners73 » Wed Dec 25, 2019 4:30 pm

Could you ask your sister if you can look after the child whilst she has a break?
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Postby MrInnerPeace » Wed Dec 25, 2019 4:54 pm

I would really like to take care of her child. The problem is that I currently live alone without a partner and with roomates that values to party more. I dont think it is the best environment for a child. I also have a full time job that I need to sustain in order. Should I leave my job and go back to my home to take care more of my family ?
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