Help!! Can’t get a boner at 17

Alright so I know there is many forums on this, but I wanted to make one specifically for me. So I have watched porn a lot, eat a lot of fast food, I am pretty active, I play basketball, I go to the gym as well, but I had a boner for hours with my girlfriend, we haven’t done anything yet as in sex. So she was on top grinding on me and I had a boner, but in the middle and for the rest of the time we hung out, I didn’t have one, I did not wake up with one this morning, haven’t had one all day, tried to watch porn and couldn’t get a boner. I know it’s only been one day but I am actually freaking out, I am always able to get a boner when I pull up a hot picture or a porn video, and today I could not. Is this diabetes, erectile disfuntion, did she hurt me while she was grinding on me? I really need to know what happened, but I do not want to go to a Urologist just yet. I love her to death and don’t want not being able to get hard ruin anything. Can someone please make an assumption on what it can be?

Thanks,
Jordan

Hi Jordan

Assuming you’re healthy, which it sounds to be the case. It sounds like it might be a couple possibilities off the cuff:

1. You’re being self conscious for the first time about your erection thus making it go away
2. You have porn induced erectile dysfunction (research it please)
3. You are in fact injured and should seek medical attention if anything is in pain or looks amiss down there
4. You’re highly stressed/anxious about this situation or something else in your life

Try to gather yourself and put it in perspective. Let us know how you’re doing and you can take it one step at a time til you’re back to your healthy self.

Josh