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Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby Elle652 » Sun Dec 24, 2017 6:30 am

I am writing about my husband, who was diagnosed with ED earlier this year. I’ve been as proactive as I can be (making & going to his appts/giving up my physical pleasure completely to focus solely on him/finding tips online to try/etc). He was diagnosed with low-T 3 years ago, and given various non-medical options to avoid taking testosterone, but he didn’t follow through, so now he’s on shots (which he’s mad about every time he has to administer his shot). His testosterone is normal now, but he still has ED. 4 drs continued to give him options to help (exercise being the main one), but he’s less active than before the diagnosis. Is this normal ? He mentioned being worried to have intercourse, in case he lost his erection, and it’s like his sex drive is literally non-existent. He doesn’t masturbate either (we have discussed to try to figure out a solution). Can anyone help ? I don’t know what to do, and it’s as if he doesn’t care for anything physical anymore. He’s also lost interest in his overall health, which terrifies me. I understand he views ED as though he lost what makes him a man, and I don’t know what that feels like, but I don’t know what else to do. I’m trying to right my mind.
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby josh0745 » Thu Feb 01, 2018 1:54 pm

I would have him consider seeing a sex therapist or coach. When I first started having problems I fell into a deep depression as well as triggered GAD. In therapy he can really open up and say anything, things that he wouldn’t talk to you about. It’s great that he has a wife that’s so supportive!! Don’t give up on him, I’m sure his head is filled with the most horrible of horrible which would also explain the lack of interest in self care, etc. This is a journey but it appears he has the start of a great support network! Keep us posted

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Postby Bob1974 » Tue Apr 03, 2018 3:20 pm

Tried going to a urologist? Viagra? Cialis? Trimix injections?
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby Silasx3 » Sat Jun 16, 2018 7:31 am

Hi I hope you see this in time because what you and your husband is going through doesn't have to be this way. I guarantee you one if not many of these solutions will cure his ED. Yes I found a eureka moment and it's funny no one is talking about the real culprits responsible for ED. Your free to look up the problems and solutions I have listed here. I know what your going through. I've struggled with getting hard off and on for years. Saw so many different doctors and got nowhere. But through trial and error I've found a few reasons why you could have problems getting hard that your doctor doesn't tell you.

1. This is the one that's overlooked by just about everybody. I even overlooked it... Your exposed to black mold from your AC unit.Yes a strain of black mold can cause ED overtime and overtime(in years your erections get softer over time) Check your AC units for black mold. You also have to see if you can get a professional to check the ducts too. If you can't get your AC unit cleaned properly then just leave on your AC when your not in the house and just turn it off when your in the house. Why? Because black mold dies out when it's airborne. But if you breath it in or get contact on your skin and hair. It does damage and the damage lingers. Sometimes you either have to wash your hair or cut your hair just to get the black mold out.

2. Bad bacteria in your gut. Injesting a bad batch of bacteria either from bad AC vents or other places can affect you prostate and your intestines located above your prostate which can put pressure on it. This can have a psychological effect because you more focused on the bloated pressure of your abdomen versus getting a boner. Also you might notice that same pressure causes frequent urination (no it's not because of diabetes). Go to your gastro doctor and ask for antibiotics that specifically target your intestines to get rid of the bad bacteria. It helped with my ED tremendously.

3. Eating foods that is cooked with hot vegetable oil constantly. Yes when I started living on my own I ate foods like that constantly. Fries and red meat smothered in hot vegetable oil. The result is that over time I started getting weaker and weaker erections and after a while my body had less energy. I suggest eating more cooked foods and avoid all foods cooked with high vegetable oil. It's like taking in solid trans fat blocks that will restrict blood flow to your penile chambers.

4. Cut down or stop masturbation all together. The sensation is different and you want your body use to stroking motions. Buy a masturbator or sex doll instead. You don't have to worry about getting hard and your pole will get use to getting hard that way.

The solutions to these problems worked for me. But I would also suggest blending watermelon with ginger, beets and pomegranate. Also wear cock rings because they will keep you erect. Also exercise three days a week. And consider doing a raw vegan diet or just eating vegan. And if you don't take in vegan foods trying cooking meals with peanut or extra virgin olive oil (not regular olive oil! That's bad)
I also take zinc with avena sativa tablets on a regular basis which helps with increasing nitric oxide which increases erections. Also I mixed 1 cup of apple cider vinegar with 1 cup of pure lemon juice with 1 cup of garlic purée and 2 cups of natural honey heated for 30 minutes then stored in a container. I take 2 teaspoons a day. It helps with opening up your blood vessels and increasing blood flow to your genitals. I did all these things and my sex life is better.

Also you could try having his urologist prescrib flowmax to see if it resets his prostate and restores his erections.

A last resort.... get the priapus shot. It's expensive but it's a permanent solution to keep you erectile problem free for years.
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby Bob1974 » Sat Jun 16, 2018 6:06 pm

There is another forum called *mod edit* which has a wealth of info on ED... even implants
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby maree12 » Mon Aug 19, 2019 8:28 am

Silasx3 Did that concoction of apple cider vinegar, garlic etc then make you vomit? I would not be able to force myself to drink it.
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby Silasx3 » Mon Aug 19, 2019 3:37 pm

Maree12 No I only take one table every morning. Also you should take it in combination with nitric oxide (will help get you hard), with L-arginine/L-Citrulline complex ( will also help with getting hard), Folate(or folic acid will make the cum creamy and also make buckets full of it) , iron, Vitamin D3 with at least 20,000 IU(that’s according to my doctor) and zinc.What also helps is getting aloe Vera and blending it. Fry it in peanut oil. Strain it in a dropper bottle and add drops of Vitamin E, Peppermint and Eucalyptus oil. Stir and drop this mixture on the penis. It opened up all my blood vessels in my penis and keeps me hard. Do all this but buy a penis pump with a cock ring. Make sure the cock ring is super tight. If you live in the United States Buy from *mod edit*. The tightest cock rings help me stay hard like forever. Do all this and ED won’t be an issue and I’m not just saying that. To be fair I did get a PRP shot and I do pulse wave treatments that might help but it just made things better but try my suggestions before investing in prp and pulse wave treatments. There’s an 80% the ED will be cured. Also AVOID PLASTICS WITH BISPHENOL-A (BPA) ! They mimic estrogen hormones and there is a study that shows the exposure is link to ED.Plastics like water bottles can have it . Here’s the link.

https://www.webmd.com/erectile-dysfunct ... ues-in-men

Hope this helps! I’ve been trying to find a solution for over a decade. I found it so it should help you too.

-- Mon Aug 19, 2019 10:40 am --

PS all the stuff I said in my post for last year works too but my new post above has lasting and proven results. Oh and for energy workout twice a day and eat clean as much as possible. Thanks
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Re: Spouse looking for ED help/answers/advice

Postby Snaga » Tue Aug 20, 2019 9:14 pm

Silasx3 wrote:Make sure the cock ring is super tight.... The tightest cock rings help me stay hard like forever.


Ouch!

I feel compelled to interject some caution- I have used cock rings in the past (and still do on occasion), and feel they exacerbated my varioceles (varicose veins in the scrotum), quite a bit, in fact. If there's any sort of vascular irregularities, approach with caution and be aware they could aggravate a vascular condition.

I'm not sure how tight an elastic one should be, but the rule of thumb for, say, a metal one, is that one should be able to insert a finger under it, when limp.

The width also seems to have an effect- I have ones that are relatively thin, and some wide ones, the wide ones that are a bit smaller in diameter, are, I believe, what gets me into discomfort/trouble, especially if used for more than just a short period of time.

And as always, use caution with supplements- I find myself very sensitive to the side effects of supplements, even ones that are safe for most people. You can never tell when you will be that odd person that exhibits a nasty side effect.
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