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Postby notjustsurviving » Mon Nov 08, 2010 10:23 pm

A very important point! No matter what excuses the other person might have, even if they're completely insane and out of their own control, they still do not have the right to harm anyone in any way. Everyone deserves health and happiness and protection from harm. No personality disorder/addiction/emotional problem/brain damage or deterioration etc. gives anyone the right to do anything and the people involved with those individuals with a tendency towards abusive behaviour deserve 100% protection.
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Re: Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, ever.

Postby sherry09 » Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:47 am

i so agree with you...my question is....if u ae a victim of abusers...why doesnt anyone help u out? im a victim of severe
family violence nd everyone praises my abusers....and attacks me too....i dont know what to do...people are so evil
they seem to want to throw people in the gutter...whta are we supposed to do to protect ourselves?
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Postby Onebravegirl » Wed Nov 24, 2010 12:09 am

Hi Sherry. I am not sure of the specifics of you situation, or where you live. At any rate I can direct you to two sites that may offer you some insight into things that you can do to get out of an abusive relationships.
The first site is a free test that you can take to asses the amount of danger you are in.
https://www.mosaicmethod.com/
The second offers info and resources for people in the US.
http://www.nnedv.org/
Keep posting all you like here. I'll help any way I can!
With care,
One
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Postby muffy99 » Thu Mar 24, 2011 8:34 pm

i have been abused for ten years now iam feeling unable to walk away cos part of me is scared to i feel worthless
and i cant remeber many of the bad times feels like a total block i see a some one once a week i talk about now and
the past but still cant cry about whats gone he dont live with me but a soon as he comes to mine he takes over when iam
on the pc or dojng somthing him and the kids shout my name kids i understand but his a man i cant breath for him wanting my
attension he hasnt hit me for monyhs but what i dont get is iam not stupid so why do i put up and shut up
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Postby xoxodooder » Wed Apr 20, 2011 8:55 pm

This is all pretty credited stuff.
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Postby mystic dolphin » Sat Aug 13, 2011 11:51 am

All of the above!


"whta are we supposed to do to protect ourselves?"

Fight back against the world and everyone in it
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Re: Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, ever.

Postby mystic dolphin » Sun Aug 14, 2011 1:18 am

NOT UNLESS THEY'RE GIVEN THE RIGHT BY SOCIAL CARE
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Postby jimben » Sun Aug 28, 2011 10:07 pm

TRUE == two wrongs do not make a right.

The aforementioned behaviors are characteristic of counter-dependent relationships. While both parties mutually participate in the negative behaviors associated with quarreling, most always the female tries to paint herself alone as an abused victim.

If you find yourself in a dysfunctional relationship, you have the right to get out. Beyond divorce and/or departure, right and wrong trends to get rather blurry.
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Postby hellodollyllama » Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:21 pm

http://sisterx2.blogspot.com/2011/11/me ... world.html

Look at this picture. This is Ethel. She has the Guinness record, for the worst wife in the world.

She drinks, she smokes, she tokes.
The house is a mess, the kids are a mess.
She spends money like a drunken sailor.
She sleeps around.
She even hits her husband.

It’s official, Ethel is the Worst Wife in the World. She’s Number One.


So let me say two things about Ethel.

1. Even Ethel, the Worst Wife in the World, doesn’t deserve to get hit. No woman deserves to get hit. Hitting someone – even a stranger, let alone the woman you say you love – is a crime. It is not a private matter between husband and wife, it is a crime. No woman deserves to get hit.

2. You, dear reader, are not Ethel. No matter how lowdown your husband tells you you are, no matter how lowdown you think you are, you’re not Ethel. There’s no way in the world he can beat you over and over, without persuading you that you deserve it. Persuading you that you’re Ethel. But you’re not.
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Re: Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else, ever.

Postby RetroHoney » Sat Jan 21, 2012 9:48 pm

I agree with the OP and some of the others. But even if it is non physical abuse -- sometimes you are so afraid of it becoming physical abuse to fight back verbally or whatever. These outbursts are intimidating and scary sometimes. You want to stop taking it but you don't want to get beat up or killed over it either. What to do? :?
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