Hello.

Hello, I'm Vesper. I'm part of the Schrodinger Collective. I'm an introject of a past ex's alter. They ended up not even being a system. They lied to be with us. I'm based on a lie....
Does anyone have any words of kindness or wisdom for me?

"I think, therefore I am"
You exist so you cannot be a lie.
You are a part of this world, a part of your collective. You have every reason and right to be here.
It sounds to me as if you are here to process how people could lie to you like that. That is a very respectable reason, in my opinion.

Take things one step at a time. Life is not always kind, and people do not always have good intentions. Even if they do, that does not always make them saints.

I wish you good fortune in your journey.

Hi Vesper

It maybe that part you thought you knew in your ex’s system was perceived to you (or another of your system) as kind or one of your favourites of their system and your system is unconsciously mourning the loss of that relationship?

Maybe part of you feels if that alter had been real (within their system) they would have taken your side/not being happy with their hosts betrayal of your trust and would have chosen to support you and your system so your brain has created an introject of them?

We have 2 that believe they are spirit walk-ins both based on a person or a pet and really the only two we had a really deep relationship with (and felt love from) in our life. Ours didn’t lie to us but they did die sadly of illness or old age at a time in our life when we weren’t really equipped to process it.

If a part of you is angry with the ex (I imagine at least one part will be?) and feels they are ‘dead to them’ because of what they did, then other parts may be mourning for the relationship of the alters they had believed in and perhaps enjoyed interacting with most?

Hope that makes sense?