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My new job

Postby companionwolf » Wed Sep 09, 2020 2:50 pm

Hello. I do not have a name, but they call me NN. That stands for No-Name. Today the therapist helped me decide a new job. Because my current job is hold bad feelings. And it was all I was. But I am not that job any longer. I have a new other job. I will help with being social. And social anxiety.

But I have a problem. I do not know how to be social. Wolf says they Will be with me. And help me. But I would like to do it myself. So how do I be social? And is it ok to use my voice? I talk very ‘flat.’ And lots of pauses. Wolf thinks this will scare the friends. And says they will talk for me. So I only talk on inside.

Thank you.

- NN
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Re: My new job

Postby spinningtops » Thu Sep 10, 2020 8:18 am

just want to say that i think it is so good that you are getting a new job besides holding bad feelings. i can understand those doubts. maybe as they help you, you will start to do it by yourself soon?
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Re: My new job

Postby MakersDozn » Thu Sep 10, 2020 10:42 pm

Hi NN,

It's nice to meet you, and we're glad you posted. We too think it's great that you have a new job in your system.

We identify with the challenge of being social, since 75 percent of our system are introverts. Learning new skills takes time. So we're sending you encouragement.

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Re: My new job

Postby companionwolf » Fri Sep 18, 2020 7:11 pm

Thank you MDs and Spinningtops. For the encouragement. I have not gotten to watch much. Because it is not safe to go out much. But I will keep watching. And I am looking up on the internet. I will be ready. And I will do a good job. But for now I just watch. I think that’s ok. Since I do not know how to do it yet. Thank you again. I am glad to have posted here.

- NN
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