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Help - Depersonalization caused by fatherlessness

Postby Alfon285 » Wed Aug 15, 2018 1:26 pm

I am a 24 year old male who's had Depersonalization for the last 3.5 years. I have discovered that the problem that cauded it was a lack of father's care and love throughout my entire life. I have always longed for my father giving me the love and care I much needed from him, which he almost never gave me. Also, It's worth pointing out that he is a narcissist and always told me that if I didn't do what he wanted I would never see him again.
I would like to know how to stop looking for his love and care and find what I need within myself, to be free, happy and full once and for all.
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Re: Help - Depersonalization caused by fatherlessness

Postby ItsJustUs » Tue Sep 04, 2018 5:45 pm

Are you in counseling/therapy?

That would be where you should start, in my non-medical-personnel opinion.
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Re: Help - Depersonalization caused by fatherlessness

Postby Bojo » Tue Sep 11, 2018 12:08 am

I have a similar issue. The best thing, IMO, would be to distance yourself from him and try to find support from others that are in your situation. I let my mother ruin my health and I'm in my forties. If I had to do it over again, I would focus on school and work and live as far away from my family as possible.
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