Hello All ,
My husband as recently started accusing me of anal sex with our tenants and neighbors and sometimes says I am having threesomes and more with them. He told me that he has a video of me doing porn with a guy and when he called this mystery man confessed to him it was me and him that made the video together. I asked if I could see this video but for some reason he says I cant however he let me mother see it who said that she did not se anything to the effect he was talking about well i stopped talking to her and said she was on my side and she was taking up for me. I told him I didn't want sex and he just started to go off on me telling me I do not love him and I wish he was dead and I want to move my lover in because I want my lover more than I want him. I told him I think he needs to see a doctor...well why did I do that he said I would rather him in the hospital on meds rather than just tell him the name of my boyfriend or that I am cheating...and trying to deny or show him any proof of what he is saying is not true...… It's useless. He said I should leave him alone and go be with my lover and he gets very aggressive if I do not want to have sex with him. Oh and I have told the doctor what to say so they will be on my side and then he says I should go and have myself checked. We have been married 11years and this has just started back in April after his father died... Advise please...how can I get him to see a doctor?