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my lies ruined some one´s life i feel suicidical

Postby adriaanb » Tue Jan 02, 2018 2:31 pm

from 18-21 i was in a relationship with an older woman 27-30 i told her i wanted to marry her and have kids with her which was a lie!

i feel such guilt about this wasting her time like this that i want to kill my self. a year passed since i ended the relationship and i still life in the mentalhopsital since i feel so guilty.

i wasted 3 years of her life now she is 30 single and childless :?
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Re: my lies ruined some one´s life i feel suicidical

Postby Wally58 » Wed Jan 03, 2018 11:26 pm

You might want to read up on doing a 8th and 9th step of the 12 steps. See if you can find things in the material that may help you put together an apology of sorts.
It is about making amends to persons we had harmed, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Do you have proof that she hasn't moved on since the breakup? Are you allowed to contact her or not?
Sometimes these relationships don't work out and we have to learn how to get past them and get on with life. Thirty is still young.
Best of luck to you. :D
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