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thinking bullies were my friends

Postby jaus tail » Wed Jan 19, 2022 4:22 am

Hi,
i struggled with standing up for myself. at office, once i stood up to a bullying behavior by a colleague n some other colleague grabs my shoulder n says: cant u take a joke?

after that i stopped hanging out with them n not one of them asked me how are you...

often i used to think they were in right n i was wrong in being hyper sensitive.

now i realize they were never my friends to begin with. i just hate this mentality that:
ur supposed to take a joke.
ur supposed to be ok with friends making fun of you.

what also bothers me is the fact that they got away with it. they will never apologize while i'm still suffering years later.

even if they do apologize, it wont help me i guess. i just hate them.
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