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Postby Tinkerbell17 » Sat Sep 05, 2020 3:52 pm

Hi

Can two borderlines who really love each other have a successful relationship because they understand each other better than anyone else does?
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Re: Borderline Romantic Reationships

Postby Remember Ronni » Sun Sep 06, 2020 11:54 am

It probably depends on the individuals. It might work, but if it didn't it could turn very toxic and unhealthy.
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Re: Borderline Romantic Reationships

Postby weepingwillow » Thu Sep 10, 2020 1:52 am

I would agree that it depends on the people and how your relationship works. It doesn't hurt to try tho :)

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Re: Borderline Romantic Reationships

Postby Remember Ronni » Fri Sep 11, 2020 1:21 am

It's just like any other relationships too. I mean between "normies". They can be just as disasterous, A BPD relationship is no different to any relationship. All have some kind of issues. It's no different for us. It might work, it could be amazing. Or it could be a complete roller coaster. And if it ends it won't be pretty. It really does just depend on those involved. Be honest. Set boundaries. And be happy together.

I was a divorce lawyer believe me no relationship is guaranteed to work out. But that's absolutely no reason not to try as Weeping Willow put it.
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