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Thanks for nothing *mod edit*

Postby sickofbeinginvalid » Thu Jan 02, 2020 9:40 pm

None of you give a ###$ about me or help me... I always try to comment on people’s posts and I get nothing in return. You’re all ###$ in the head considering you should know what it feels like to be lacking in support. This community sucks... I thought I could find an outlet on here but it looks like not one person can even reach out or give me feedback on my posts. ###$ all of you hypocritical assholes.
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Re: Thanks for nothing *mod edit*

Postby lilyfairy » Sun Jan 05, 2020 9:20 am

This part of the forums seems to be going through a quiet period at the moment, which does happen from time to time, and as someone commented on another thread, sometimes while people do read the threads, they just don't have the right words at the right time to feel they are able to reply. And they can't be here all the time- I myself have been unable to spend much time on the forums lately- life has gotten in the way.

Going on the attack against others because you are not getting the replies you wanted won't be tolerated.

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Re: Thanks for nothing *mod edit*

Postby Schwärmer » Mon Jan 06, 2020 12:27 pm

You're left, mostly, with lurkers. 'Quiet phase' - This was at one time one of the more energetic forums. The evidence in this place's slow snuffing out can be found in its massively deteriorated numbers. For any number of reasons, this could be the case.

If it is support you want, find a more populated forum or other alternative. This, for lack of any other way to put it, is seemingly locked in maintenance mode.

Best of luck to you.
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Re: Thanks for nothing *mod edit*

Postby Schwärmer » Mon Jan 06, 2020 1:51 pm

Take note: Most users ever online was 6905 on Sun May 07, 2017 1:21 am
More recently: Most users ever online was 10638 on Sat Dec 28, 2019 4:53 pm

Whatever caused this sudden influx, it is not an accurate portrayal of normal activity, which hovers somewhere around 500-600(generously up to 700-800), however even when this forum was displaying 1000-2000(I swear I saw it) total users online based on the past 60 minutes, the majority of these forums were not actively used. To put this into perspective: the popular forums were probably receiving 10-15 replies on any given day, and always between, normally, the same pool of users between the 2-3 popular ones, with the occasional single post elsewhere. Further perspective: There are in total 95 sections to post in here, not including the subforums within them.

tl;dr the forum shows more active users than users who actively contribute. Again, the majority of the population seems to be lurkers, and so this will reflect the lack of support that you are experiencing.
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