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how is ur family atmosphere

Postby jaus tail » Wed May 29, 2019 8:27 am

Hi,
do you get along with ur family? parents/ siblings..
i dont get along much with them. the conversation isn't fluid. n more often its just exchanging random news.

are u comfortable to talk with ur parents / siblings about anything/ joke around them/ dance around them?
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Re: how is ur family atmosphere

Postby 87adoremoko » Thu May 30, 2019 1:02 pm

i don 't feel close to them
they say they care about me but then they dismiss my feelings
i split on them constantly
idk
i 'm rly dependent and i 'm overwhelmed easily so they have to hold my hand
i 'm also anorexic and my brother always asks what i ate that day & makes me to eat w/ him . i dislike that lol

&& he acts like i choose to have anorexia and bpd

i 'm bad
i 'll be alone, god is prtty mean./i 'll b dead
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Postby jaus tail » Sun Jun 02, 2019 3:48 am

thanks for the reply. the splitting is frustrating. with me at times i like to eat food n at times i worry about my belly fat. obsess over belly fat even though the therapist told me i'm very thin n need to put on some weight.
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Re: how is ur family atmosphere

Postby Baldanders » Sun Jun 09, 2019 3:56 pm

No, my family is abusive, so I cut them out of my life years ago. One of the best decisions I've ever made.
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Re: how is ur family atmosphere

Postby Panda-chan » Tue Jun 11, 2019 12:36 am

I've done the same thing Baldanders said. When I had the oportunity I cut them off from my life.
Don't get me wrong, we had a lot of conversations about my feelings and how I felt towards them. I gave them enough oportunities so they could correct their behaviour towards me and have a more healthy relationship. But they didn't want to listen and kept on their ways, so I cut them off entirely.
They were very toxic, so I don't feel bad about it.

Just as a clarification: have you communicated with them? Did you tell them how their actions make you feel?
I have 4 dissorders and somehow I'm more of a normal human than everyone else.
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Re: how is ur family atmosphere

Postby jaus tail » Wed Jun 12, 2019 6:42 am

i havent told them about it. often i feel guilty if i think of leaving them. its not like they were all bad. so its confusing n the outside world is also horrible.
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