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Cant accept someone being mad at me yet still loving me?

Postby sickofbeinginvalid » Thu Feb 28, 2019 6:46 pm

I feel like it is impossible for me to accept grey areas. It feels like If someone is mad at me they HATE me. And when I get defensive and express that I feel like someone is being cruel to me that makes them even more mad? I don’t understand it. I feel like I’m crazy, because people never seem to understand my point of view. Maybe I am projecting? I don’t know it feels like I must just be a terrible person if people can get so mad at me and seemingly hate me easily... it feels like no one ever has empathy for me sometimes.
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Re: Cant accept someone being mad at me yet still loving me?

Postby Wantpeace » Thu Feb 28, 2019 10:10 pm

I also find it hard to believe someone still loves me, when they are mad at me. And I notice people almost never are able to empathize with me either. I have to really go out of my way to explain myself, after the other person has calmed down. I have even had to ask people for an apology for hurting my feelings or being mean to me. I am always saying I'm sorry to other people, but when I get hurt I have to explain to them that they hurt my feelings.

It is so hard to not end up being bitter with how insensitive people are.
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