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how to be less lonely? how to obtain acceptance?

Postby themissingme » Mon Aug 20, 2018 2:47 pm

I just figured that I should share this..

in order to feel more accepted..

is to be more myself, share more of my thinking, be more honest with my feelings and share it, express it..
if I don't like something.. say it
If I hate something, say it also
don't hide
if I don't want something, express that
the more I show my real self, it means that I am more acceptance of myself.. and people will get to know the real me. When they truly accept me.. that will be real acceptance

also, I need to fulfill more of my needs also, forget about what others want from me.. forget about what to say or what to do in order to seek for my parents/ or parental figures approval...
just be me
even I am childish, selfish or not perfect at all.
then I will be stepping closer to real acceptance

in order to be less lonely,
I think the more acceptance I get from people, the more real connection I can make, it makes me less lonely too!
be more vulnerable and share more of my feelings in order to draw myself closer to people.. that will makes me feel less lonely ^___^
I don't have hope, so God reaches out and gives me hope.
I don't feel loved, so God found me and shows me His never failling love.
I don't feel happy, so God shows me what happiness can be like..

*The Darkest Night Brings the Brightest Stars*
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Re: how to be less lonely? how to obtain acceptance?

Postby cirkusrat » Wed Aug 22, 2018 4:06 am

Thanks for these words. I think there's a lot of truth in them.
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