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Author:  quietgirl2538 [ Sun Sep 03, 2023 3:36 pm ]
Blog Subject:  Hope found in M, my hot ex-boyfriend

I have not written anything because I was not in a good place to write much. I was stunned, shocked, hurt, angry, all kinds of emotions I was processing.

A few days ago, I saw with clarity something that I haven't seen in me nor in my life, in the last few months. Hope.

I have an ex-boyfriend whose name is M. He's hot! He's so buff and handsome and he is very sweet to me, calls me beautiful and that still makes me feel so good inside. So beautiful. His presence in my life gives me so much hope in men. I don't, for one minute, believe that all men are the same as my recent ex-boyfriend, such as callous and a piece of $#%^. That's what he is whether he believes it or not. He's very low and he doesn't deserve me. That too, is the truth. I believe all people, whether they're men or women, make choices and those choices reflect on them. Mike isn't perfect and we are not together, but he is a reminder to me of men like him existing. One man shouldn't color my view of all men, and it doesn't anymore. It takes a lot for me to lose hope in men, in humanity, but my ex-boyfriend did do that to me. 2 months later with having a good man in my life, I see the truth, that there exists such beauty in the heart of other men. Men such as M. That is my newfound hope. I love the guy and I never want to lose him from my life. In doing that, I choose to remain friends. Because he is a sweetheart who is currently not available and I don't plan for anymore than friendship between us.

I am at peace finding the truth in my life, and I have hope in my love life once again. I also find a purpose for me and my future, which is to wait for the right man who can love me like I deserve. <3

Author:  quietgirl2538 [ Sat Jun 24, 2023 2:24 pm ]
Blog Subject:  Few Details of being wronged

I was lied to by my ex-boyfriend.

I was betrayed by him.

I simply trusted and expected only good things to happen between us.

Even his dogs (German Shepards) don't know what it's like to be mistreated by him.

I thought at first it was someone just saying that there is no future for us.

No, it was someone cheating on someone else. It was someone (her) chasing after a man who was taken.

This hurts.

Author:  quietgirl2538 [ Tue Jun 13, 2023 4:17 pm ]
Blog Subject:  Made a decision

moving on...

Author:  quietgirl2538 [ Mon Jun 05, 2023 4:53 am ]
Blog Subject:  Tougher Than the Rest

[Verse 1]
Well, it's Saturday night
You're all dressed up in blue
I been watching you awhile
Maybe you been watching me, too
So somebody ran out
Left somebody's heart in a mess
Well, if you're looking for love
Honey, I'm tougher than the rest

[Verse 2]
Some girls, they want a handsome Dan
Or some good-lookin' Joe on their arm
Some girls like a sweet-talkin' Romeo
Well, round here, baby
I learned you get what you can get
So if you're rough enough for love
Honey, I'm tougher than the rest

[Bridge]
The road is dark and it's a thin thin line
But I want you to know I'll walk it for you any time
Maybe your other boyfriends couldn't pass the test
Well, if you're rough and ready for love
Honey, I'm tougher than the rest

[Verse 3]
Well, it ain't no secret
I've been around a time or two
Well, I don't know baby
Maybe you've been around too
Well, there's another dance
All you gotta do is say yes
And if you're rough and ready for love
Honey, I'm tougher than the rest

If you're rough enough for love
Baby, I'm tougher than the rest

Lyrics by Bruce Springsteen

Author:  quietgirl2538 [ Fri Jun 02, 2023 2:01 pm ]
Blog Subject:  Being gracious

Being gracious, when I don't have to. But for my well-being, I must.

<3

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