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| Author: | headstorm [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 2:17 pm ] |
| Blog Subject: | My Sister, the 41 year old virgin. |
My older sister is 41 years old and still a virgin. This is not a joke but I assure you, this is all true. My sister was even married for 2 years to a freak that never touched her. She is separated now. I guess the story starts when Sarah was very young. As a teenager, she never had any boyfriends. She was always a bit awkward and very shy. Then she went through her twenties and early 30s without a boyfriend. I would ask her why she didn't just get laid and she would say that she was waiting for the right person and til she was married. I myself did not take the same road and have never been married but am certainly by no means a virgin. I have 2 children as well. Then she met her husband and they started dating but no physical contact. They both said they were waiting until after the wedding. So the wedding comes and I have the talk with my sister about her wedding night and what to expect so she could be ready. Nothing happened... Then they are living together as husband and wife and they do not have sex at all. In fact, they have no sexual contact of any kind. This goes on for 2 years, finally she leaves him. So now she is single and still a virgin and now is so freaked out about the whole thing that she is terrified of her first time. Terrified of doing it...I told her how good it was with the right person who knew what they were doing. I have offered to get her an escort to just get it over with but she says no. This drives me crazy that she won't just do it. I wonder if she will always be a virgin??? For her sake, I hope not. |
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| Author: | headstorm [ Wed Oct 09, 2013 9:41 pm ] |
| Blog Subject: | Feeling manic today |
My mind is racing all over today. I was in a good mood then i started crying. I went for a nap and laid in my bed for over 2 hours and did not sleep. A lot of thinking today. thinking about my Dad who I lost 2 years ago and thinking about my last horrible relationship. I feel so restless. Maybe I am just adjusting to my new dose of Wellbutrin and Abilify. I get depressed in the winter so my pdoc raised the dose of both of them. it has only been a week so hopefully this will all mellow out soon. So, today is a rough "up and down" kinda day...tomorrow will be something different. In fact, this mood could change even sooner. I joke and sometimes and say that the good thing about being bipolar is that if I am in a bad mood, I know it will change soon enough. Also, i must comment on how many people have read my first blog. I am shocked, I didn't think anybody read these. This blogging thing is new to me but I know it's something that will benefit me too. |
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| Author: | headstorm [ Tue Oct 08, 2013 2:07 am ] |
| Blog Subject: | Introduction |
I have had problems with depression and anxiety for as long as I can remember. My childhood was a nightmare as I grew up with a single mom who is an alcoholic. Nobody ever got help for me and my mom would never admit that something might be wrong with me. after I had my first child at age 21, i was put on anti-depressants. I was quite manic for alot of years but didn't know what it was that was going on with me,i just knew i made really stupid decisions sometimes. 3 years ago i was officially diagnosed as being bipolar 1 and my medication was adjusted to fit this new diagnosis. i have been wanting to start a blog for awhile now even though i am sure nobody will ever read this. |
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