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Author:  distortedgirl [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 4:19 am ]
Blog Subject:  friends
In summary, I tried to write that I don't know what is a friend,
but, what I wanted to write was gone somewhere.

Instead, I scrabble something.

I like things are defined clearly.
Otherwise, I feel uncomfortable.
When I do something, I should know exactly what I do.
Otherwise, I cannot do it well.
I like my day is scheduled.
Otherwise, I cannot know what to do.
When there will be something different from my routin,
I want to know exactly what will happen.
Otherwise, I feel very insecure, and will be upset.
I want every person is good or bad, completely.
Otherwise, I am confused.

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My definision of friend is not clear enough.
Friends need
- to be equal
- to be independent
- mutual resupect
- mutual trust
- mutual understanding
Author:  distortedgirl [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:32 am ]
Blog Subject:  I dislike (edit)
i dislike the ads. everywhere in the forum.
every thread and every blog.

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The placement of adds is now much better.
If there were an nnouncement from the admin
before or just after they changed the add policy,
it would be easier to accept the adds.
When I first saw the add in a post,
I was simply confused "what happened?".
Author:  distortedgirl [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 12:42 am ]
Blog Subject:  My feelings
I should not trust my feelings.
They are often wrong.
I feel everything is bad now.
EVERYTHING cannot be bad.
Author:  distortedgirl [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:45 pm ]
Blog Subject:  I test others
I often test others.
I want to know wheter they keep staying around me.

Many people take the test and fail it. (they are normal)
Some people don't take the test and leave. (they are wise)
Several people take the test and pass it. (they will fail eventually)
Few people don't take the test and stay. (i want to trust them)
My husband sometimes doesn't notice the test. (he is unsensitive)
When he takes the test, he always fails it. (he doesn't understand me)
And he stays. (maybe he is somehow special)
Author:  distortedgirl [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 8:52 pm ]
Blog Subject:  value
I want to have some value.
I like people who see some value in me.
I put special value on them because they allow me feel I have some value.
I try to have more value for them.
When they stop seeing some value in me, they lose their value for me.
They can still be useful for me, but they have no special value.
They are just usefule, as tools can be useful.
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