var title = 'Psychology and Mental Health Forum Psychology Feed';
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		var time = 'Wed, 06 Aug 2025 15:27:05 -0400';

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		data[0]['title'] = 'After sex I lose interest...... what's wrong with me?';
		data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/after_sex_i_lose_interest......_what%CA%B9s_wrong_with_me%CA%94_c-3_u-91847_b-3142.html';
		data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/after_sex_i_lose_interest......_what%CA%B9s_wrong_with_me%CA%94_c-3_u-91847_b-3142.html';
		data[0]['username'] = 'SadLittleJawa';
		data[0]['blog_id'] = '3142';
		data[0]['blog_message'] = 'I am an 18 yrs old female. I want to have a real relationship, but everytime i get the chance the same thing happens. We hang out for a bit, every thing is great we get to know each other and all that gooey mushy stuff, then as soon as we have sex I lose interest in the guy. and its not like the sex is horrible i mean there was one or two times but most of the time its f-ing great. regardless i lose interest and then i want nothing to do with the guy. sometimes we try and be friends but it just becomes awkward. whats wrong with me?? i try to have feelings but they are none exsitent, why is tht? i am not a promiscous person at all, I havent had sex in forever because of this (6 months and counting).Its hard for me to actually express my feelings. My ex told me i was a robot cold and emotionless. i would just like some opinions on this whole situation. I discussed this with some close friends and they tld me i should see a therapist  because i might be a psychopath.';
		data[0]['blog_time'] = 'Tue, 31 Jul 2012 00:40:02 -0400';
		

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		data[1]['title'] = 'Confused to who i am?';
		data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused_to_who_i_am%CA%94_c-3_u-86785_b-2652.html';
		data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused_to_who_i_am%CA%94_c-3_u-86785_b-2652.html';
		data[1]['username'] = 'mrlak93';
		data[1]['blog_id'] = '2652';
		data[1]['blog_message'] = 'Im a 19 year old male, believe it or not studying psychology at university. I just cant seem to find myself! I thought university would change this with me living away from home, i thought it would be the part of my life where i would blossom but no, nothings changed. <br />I have zero confidence, i cant talk to people, i shy away all the time. Ive always been an attractive person, but the exterior just doesnt reflect whats inside. I dont have many friends atall, i know alot of people and people know me but know one that i could actually get into a deep coversation with. One thing that is worrying me alot is the excessive alcohol im drinking, I drink quite often as i believe it gives me more confidence, i am able to conversate with people and actually feel like i have a purpose. Im not an alcoholic as i can take it or leave it but i do feel that if i do not start to get help i will end up turning to drink.<br />My family is pretty messed up to be honest, my mother is amazing but shes just under so much preassure with work and helping my sister who is a single mother and battleing a cannabis and alcohol addiction. I just dont want to talk to her and put more worries into her head, she wouldnt deal with it. my mother has been on anti-depressents for as long as i can remember.<br />I feel like i am really blabbing on here but this is the first time ive actually been able to think about the way i feel and what crap is actually in my head. Its getting to the stage where i just dont know which direction i am going in or how to get there. I am not suicidal but the thought has crossed my mind a few times. <br />I know by writing this im not going to be instantly fixed/cured but it has helped alot, im not asking for answers, just maybe someone to talk to or someone with advice. <br /><br />Thankyou for taking the time to read this. <br />Mike';
		data[1]['blog_time'] = 'Mon, 07 May 2012 22:13:42 -0400';
		

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		data[2]['title'] = 'What can I do if my family is causing me pain?';
		data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/what_can_i_do_if_my_family_is_causing_me_pain%CA%94_c-3_u-265849_b-7452.html';
		data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/what_can_i_do_if_my_family_is_causing_me_pain%CA%94_c-3_u-265849_b-7452.html';
		data[2]['username'] = 'XxMariexX';
		data[2]['blog_id'] = '7452';
		data[2]['blog_message'] = 'I&#039;m a teen and I have an Anxiety and Depression disorder, I&#039;m not positive but I may also have mild OCD. I&#039;m really new too this website and forums so sorry if I do this wrong <img src="https://www.psychforums.com/images/smilies/icon_redface.gif" alt=":oops:" title="Embarassed" /> . I have so much running through my mind right now that it&#039;s really hard to decide what to say, so sorry again if what I say doesn&#039;t make sense. My parents have always been the over-protective type, both of their childhoods sucked and apparently they were both bullied tons. Unlike them, I was never bullied at school or anything like that I quite liked it, but I hate it at home. My parents like to start a fight over basically everything, either if it&#039;s with me or with each other, but either way, it always ends up my fault. I have a younger sister too, she&#039;s currently the age of 10 and I&#039;m pretty sure she stopped aging at 6. I mean she&#039;s always had it easy, and her attitude towards me has never changed. I was never allowed to watch TV other then Family channel or Disney until late Grade 6, but she started as soon as I did... Meaning she was only in grade 2. Meaning, my mum thinks that everything I can do or/have she can do or/have. Moving on, my mom always treats me like I am her when she was my age. She decided I was a Tom-boy, that I don&#039;t like &quot;girly things&quot; like clothes, make-up, dating, going to the mall, going to the spa or looking good. And she really had be convinced that I was that person for a while, but once I was a little older (around 10, but not the dating part tbh none of my friends have even dated before.) I noticed that all my friends liked those things now too. I was getting older, and I wanted to act more like my gender. That&#039;s normal isn&#039;t it? Well, after all my friends changed more &quot;girly&quot; then they were before, I thought I should too and not just because they were but because I felt like I wasn&#039;t being who I really was. But to be completely honest, I was scared to change. Strangers looked at me and saw the fun-crazy-weird kid, the one that didn&#039;t want to grow up. And apparently my parents thought that too, so when I did start looking at different clothing at the stores when me and my mom went shopping she would say things like; &quot;Oh no, that&#039;s nothing like you.&quot; or &quot;Don&#039;t you think thats a bit too fancy?&quot;. When really all I would be showing was casual clothes, clothes that my close friends wore. My anxiety would kick in and I would just shut-up, agreeing to whatever she bought me. What really confuses me about this is that she always complains about the terrible clothing her mom bought her when she was a kid/teenager, and I thought that would make her want to treat me better? But I&#039;m a teen now and guess what, you will still only find pairs of jeans and leggings in my closet with basic tees and you will only find a pair of runners and a pair of gumboots on the shoe rack that belong too me. It&#039;s not fair that I&#039;m not allowed to grow up, I&#039;m not allowed to be a girl, that I have been stuck in the same hole for my whole life and it&#039;s only getting bigger. All my friends wear mascara, a bit of eyeliner, eye shadow, lipstick, and all that crap, but I can only wear concealer and a bit of foundation (whatever the difference is) to hide my acne. Note: My friends are good friends, my parents have no problems with them and I have known them my whole life. Even though I&#039;m currently only talking about 2 of them, because technically the rest left me for some unknown reason. But I do have other friends, although they are all online <img src="https://www.psychforums.com/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif" alt=":cry:" title="Crying or Very sad" /> . Onto another subject now, remember it may not seem like much so far but thats because it&#039;s all the little things that build up inside of me. My parents like to fight with me or each other ALL THE TIME, it&#039;s really bad. When its just the two of them fighting, and it&#039;s...<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/what_can_i_do_if_my_family_is_causing_me_pain%CA%94_c-3_u-265849_b-7452.html" class="postlink-local">[ Continued ]</a>';
		data[2]['blog_time'] = 'Tue, 09 Sep 2014 03:54:37 -0400';
		

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		data[3]['title'] = 'help me?';
		data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/help_me%CA%94_c-3_u-347833_b-9950.html';
		data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/help_me%CA%94_c-3_u-347833_b-9950.html';
		data[3]['username'] = 'xzglr';
		data[3]['blog_id'] = '9950';
		data[3]['blog_message'] = 'Hello everyone! <br />Some bad things happened in my life lately, and i really don&#039;t know what to do anymore. And i can&#039;t tell anyone and i really need help... Please help me.<br />I&#039;m a 16 year old girl. I have an older sister who is 20 years old, but lives in another country. I also had an older brother but he died and i&#039;m the youngest kid of my family. My parents were always good to my siblings, but they always abuse me physcially and mentally. My parents divorced when i was 11 and i started to live with my father. But he was always beating me up, throwing me stuff and yelling at me, saying bad stuff to me and i was really depressed. And everyone was bullying me in school because of my look and it was making me really upset and make me hate myself. <br />When i turned 13, i started to live with my mom and she got married last year. But she changed a lot after she got married. She started abuse me, she was always talking about how ugly and stupid and lazy i am etc. Then she started to hitting me. <br />One day my mom and stepdad went out for drinking (they are drunk most of the time already so...) and they came home at like 3 am. And my stepdad tried to rape me. Then i called police, they took him to police station but he didn&#039;t go to jail...<br />After that day, he started to  hit me too and my mom wasn&#039;t saying anything. I had a lot of scars and bruises on my face and body.<br />And then they kicked me out from the house because they said they can&#039;t take stand me anymore and my dad said he doesn&#039;t want me in his home so i&#039;m staying at my friends home for now. <br />I feel really bad. I wanna run away from all of this and I wanna die.  Nobody really cares about me, even my parents. I want to talk to my mom but I can&#039;t do it. I don&#039;t know what to do. <img src="https://www.psychforums.com/images/smilies/icon_cry.gif" alt=":cry:" title="Crying or Very sad" /> <br />Btw i&#039;m sorry for my bad English because my first language isn&#039;t English and i&#039;m still learning. Thank you so much for reading..';
		data[3]['blog_time'] = 'Fri, 27 May 2016 11:17:43 -0400';
		

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		data[4]['title'] = 'Can't say no to sex';
		data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/can%CA%B9t_say_no_to_sex_c-3_u-272158_b-7813.html';
		data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/can%CA%B9t_say_no_to_sex_c-3_u-272158_b-7813.html';
		data[4]['username'] = 'Megzz';
		data[4]['blog_id'] = '7813';
		data[4]['blog_message'] = 'Hello! I&#039;m a 19- year old female and I can&#039;t seem to say no to sex. I don&#039;t feel the urge to constantly have sex but if a guy asks me to have sex I will always say yes. I beat myself up for this so much and I&#039;m not sure if it is a sexual addiction and I don&#039;t know how to treat it. <br />Please comment you opinions!';
		data[4]['blog_time'] = 'Thu, 25 Dec 2014 01:21:10 -0500';