var title = 'Psychology and Mental Health Forum Psychology Feed';
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		var site_url = 'https://www.psychforums.com';
		var site_desc = 'Psychology and Mental Health Forum';
		var time = 'Sun, 17 Aug 2025 21:17:04 -0400';

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		data[0]['title'] = 'Psychology';
		data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/psychology_c-3_u-70825_b-397.html';
		data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/psychology_c-3_u-70825_b-397.html';
		data[0]['username'] = 'whatispsychology';
		data[0]['blog_id'] = '397';
		data[0]['blog_message'] = 'What is your definition of psychology ?';
		data[0]['blog_time'] = 'Sat, 16 Jul 2011 17:53:03 -0400';
		

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		data[1]['title'] = 'stepmother desire';
		data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/stepmother_desire_c-3_u-259763_b-6972.html';
		data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/stepmother_desire_c-3_u-259763_b-6972.html';
		data[1]['username'] = 'anonymoussname';
		data[1]['blog_id'] = '6972';
		data[1]['blog_message'] = 'Ok, so I&#039;m pretty sure there is something wrong with me. I have had this feeling toward my stepmother since I could remember. Like a desire. I know it&#039;s wrong, it&#039;s not right because she is married to my father and she is my stepmother. My father cheated on her and I just wanted to tell her so bad how I felt about her, and how much she deserved better but they got back together. My father married her without telling her he had a vasectomy. And all these years later she really wants a kid, I wish I could help her have a kid... <br />   I am 21 years old, and I moved back into their house about a year ago because my roommate moved out of state and left the bills all on me. I go into their room sometimes when they go to work and I smell her freshly worn panties, and masturbate to them. I found a box of her toys(dildos) and I masturbated to them and licked them. I also found their sex tape and watched it so I could see what she looks like naked. Sometimes when my dad leaves to go to work, I hear her getting into the shower and I fantasize going in there and joining her, or going into the room and waiting on her to get out. <br />   I have control enough to never do anything to crazy, but what should I do? Should I just get help, or tell her what I have done/ how I feel, or nothing? Please don&#039;t comment how sick I am, and how I need to find god.. I know I am sick, I just can&#039;t control myself sometimes.';
		data[1]['blog_time'] = 'Fri, 23 May 2014 00:56:22 -0400';
		

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		data[2]['title'] = 'confused... difficulty in interacting with people';
		data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused..._difficulty_in_interacting_with_people_c-3_u-157453_b-4353.html';
		data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused..._difficulty_in_interacting_with_people_c-3_u-157453_b-4353.html';
		data[2]['username'] = 'rahulchawla';
		data[2]['blog_id'] = '4353';
		data[2]['blog_message'] = 'Hello<br /><img src="https://www.psychforums.com/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><br />My problem is not much complicated it&#039;s just I can&#039;t find a way to interact with society<br />I find their way illogical it&#039;s how they talk how they want to be diplomatic and want to be leader I dont know what to do when someone is crying in front of me <br />I dont know why they question on a question.<br />Its totally illogical<br />Just help me <br />M a 19 yr old guy<br />I dont know it&#039;s normal or not.!';
		data[2]['blog_time'] = 'Sat, 16 Mar 2013 08:42:36 -0400';
		

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		data[3]['title'] = 'separation anxiety';
		data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/separation_anxiety_c-3_u-383654_b-10563.html';
		data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/separation_anxiety_c-3_u-383654_b-10563.html';
		data[3]['username'] = 'donttouch';
		data[3]['blog_id'] = '10563';
		data[3]['blog_message'] = 'my father always was suspicious as to why i get really anxious any time my boyfriend leaves. he thought i was doing drugs with him or something - i&#039;m straight edge, so no, i&#039;m not doing any drugs that cause some sort of anxiety disorder. though i did think about how whenever my boyfriend leaves i get anxious. even so when i&#039;m with him i start to get anxious because he&#039;s leaving soon. this only happens with him. i automatically assume i&#039;m never seeing him again. i panic and feel as if i cannot feel okay without him. i absolutely hate this, i don&#039;t know how to change it, the only thing i&#039;ve tried is distancing myself but that only leads to emotional distance in the relationship and makes everything worse. i don&#039;t know what to do. i don&#039;t want to depend on him to feel okay.';
		data[3]['blog_time'] = 'Wed, 21 Dec 2016 18:03:45 -0500';
		

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		data[4]['title'] = 'Do I have some serious disorder or something?';
		data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/do_i_have_some_serious_disorder_or_something%CA%94_c-3_u-195253_b-4712.html';
		data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/do_i_have_some_serious_disorder_or_something%CA%94_c-3_u-195253_b-4712.html';
		data[4]['username'] = 'summerbummer';
		data[4]['blog_id'] = '4712';
		data[4]['blog_message'] = 'I&#039;m 19 years old and for my entire life I&#039;ve been having troubles feeling anything at all. I always thought there was some logical and simple explanation to why I wasn&#039;t like everyone else, and I assumed it would heal with time, but it didn&#039;t. It just keeps getting worse. First let me begin with that I&#039;m completely unable to open up to other people. I have never opened up. To anyone. If I&#039;m even close to doing it I feel disgusted by myself, I get nausea and an urge to flee. I&#039;ve also never cared like others. I can&#039;t really feel empathy. Or I mean, I can, for like animals and my family, but no one else. I&#039;m literally serious when I say my best friend could die tomorrow and I wouldn&#039;t be able to feel a thing. Obviously I&#039;d think it&#039;s sad, but it wouldn&#039;t effect me on an emotional level. <br /><br />I hide this part of me, and I certainly don&#039;t talk about it with anyone. I want to be normal but I just can&#039;t. I have tried to involve myself in other people, in relationships, and even - in my sillier moments - in love. But it doesn&#039;t work. Something in me is broken or missing. I love my immediate family, but that&#039;s about it. I can lie without feeling any kind of remorse, I manipulate people very easily, and when someone really gets on my bad side, I just attack their weaknesses and break them down with words. It&#039;s terrible, I know, but I can&#039;t stop. Even as I write it, I know I say it&#039;s terrible, but I don&#039;t feel terrible. I just know that it&#039;s not how a person should act. I could never physically hurt another person, but not because it would make me feel bad but more because I know it&#039;s wrong. <br /><br />My condition is just getting worse, I&#039;ve started to distance myself from everybody because I feel so tired of wearing a mask and constantly faking to like what they like or play their stupid games. I don&#039;t love others. I&#039;m incapable of feeling on a deeper level, there are no strong emotions in me. I feel narcisstic but at the same time I hate myself. I can get furious very easily but it goes away as quickly as it comes. I haven&#039;t had such a bad childhood but I mean my mother was going through her hardest part of life when I was a kid, and she took it out on me a lot. Sometimes physically but mostly mentally, such as I constantly heard that I was a bad kid, and bad news, and she blamed me for a lot of stuff that wasn&#039;t really my fault. She changed and got so much better when I was like 13 or something and now she&#039;s the best mom ever and apologized 200 times but I can&#039;t seem to let go. It&#039;s stuck with me.. I&#039;m seriously worried that my condition will become worse and something bad will happen... What&#039;s wrong with me?';
		data[4]['blog_time'] = 'Wed, 29 May 2013 13:16:46 -0400';