var title = 'Psychology and Mental Health Forum Psychology Feed'; var url = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/random_blogs_c-3.html'; var site_url = 'https://www.psychforums.com'; var site_desc = 'Psychology and Mental Health Forum'; var time = 'Mon, 25 Aug 2025 19:34:28 -0400'; var data = new Array(); data[0] = new Array(); data[0]['title'] = 'I feel like nothing...'; data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/i_feel_like_nothing..._c-3_u-402724_b-10936.html'; data[0]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/i_feel_like_nothing..._c-3_u-402724_b-10936.html'; data[0]['username'] = 'reoww25'; data[0]['blog_id'] = '10936'; data[0]['blog_message'] = 'My boyfriend has been in this really bad place for the past couple of weeks. He says that he doesn't feel like himself (or act like himself) & that he feels like 'nothing'. He's saying that he doesn't feel like a friend or a boyfriend. And that he feels nothing towards our relationship, even though he loves me like crazy. He just feels nothing towards everything right now.

Because of this he wants us to take a break from our relationship so he can focus on himself and getting better. He wants to do it alone.

I am really worried about him. I can't just leave him to battle this on his own when i'm the only one that knows he's in this bad place.

Even though we are on a break I really want to be there for him and help him. I just don't know how...'; data[0]['blog_time'] = 'Tue, 28 Mar 2017 21:10:19 -0400'; data[1] = new Array(); data[1]['title'] = 'confused... difficulty in interacting with people'; data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused..._difficulty_in_interacting_with_people_c-3_u-157453_b-4353.html'; data[1]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/confused..._difficulty_in_interacting_with_people_c-3_u-157453_b-4353.html'; data[1]['username'] = 'rahulchawla'; data[1]['blog_id'] = '4353'; data[1]['blog_message'] = 'Hello
:)
My problem is not much complicated it's just I can't find a way to interact with society
I find their way illogical it's how they talk how they want to be diplomatic and want to be leader I dont know what to do when someone is crying in front of me
I dont know why they question on a question.
Its totally illogical
Just help me
M a 19 yr old guy
I dont know it's normal or not.!'; data[1]['blog_time'] = 'Sat, 16 Mar 2013 08:42:36 -0400'; data[2] = new Array(); data[2]['title'] = '...'; data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/..._c-3_u-80481_b-2003.html'; data[2]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/..._c-3_u-80481_b-2003.html'; data[2]['username'] = 'lilnumber9'; data[2]['blog_id'] = '2003'; data[2]['blog_message'] = '...'; data[2]['blog_time'] = 'Sun, 15 Jan 2012 16:50:19 -0500'; data[3] = new Array(); data[3]['title'] = 'Help! I need a new coping skill.'; data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/help%C7%83_i_need_a_new_coping_skill._c-3_u-258910_b-6906.html'; data[3]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/help%C7%83_i_need_a_new_coping_skill._c-3_u-258910_b-6906.html'; data[3]['username'] = 'shortsnorts'; data[3]['blog_id'] = '6906'; data[3]['blog_message'] = 'I self harmed for two years. I began starting a new coping skill that has been really effective; eating. Although, I'm worried because I had a slight eating disorder before, eating might draw me back in it agaian.'; data[3]['blog_time'] = 'Tue, 13 May 2014 00:33:56 -0400'; data[4] = new Array(); data[4]['title'] = 'Desire to abuse cat?????'; data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/desire_to_abuse_cat%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94_c-3_u-344099_b-9871.html'; data[4]['url'] = 'https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/desire_to_abuse_cat%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94%CA%94_c-3_u-344099_b-9871.html'; data[4]['username'] = 'Darkfirerip'; data[4]['blog_id'] = '9871'; data[4]['blog_message'] = 'Alright let me start this off with some context, I am a 18 year old senior who's life revolves around animals. At my house I have a cat and 7 reptiles (all mine), but at my grandparents who i vist every weeked, has not just a cat, but a spawn of pure evil. Now this cat we bought from a home as a kitten and raise it up to the evil it is today, it has never been abused and has a life full of enrichment amd everything it needs. But even so this cat does not let anyone pet it, it never purs, it breaks stuff, attacks at random, and has a ever growing desire to murder. My cat at home is the complete oppisite, so needless to say I was taken back by the attitude, and tried many things to correct this behavior. But recently I have had this ever burning passion to strangle the cat, step on its neck, or simply kill it in anyway possible. This started when the cat decided to ######6 fling one of my gecko enlosers across the room, break in, and eat its tail. It must have thought the taste was good too, because now she wont ######6 leave any of my enclosures alone and i have to hide them in the basement. Ever since she touched my precious child, I've felt this way, and I have given up on trying to fix whatever mental problem this cat has, because whenever I see it, I get a visual image in my mind of abusing the thing. This freaks me out, I would never hurt my other animals or even my cat, but this ######6 evil has me going crazy, and these thoughts i have need to stop.'; data[4]['blog_time'] = 'Sat, 30 Apr 2016 01:13:40 -0400';