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		document.write('<div style="font-size: 1.1em; margin-bottom: 5px;"><a href="javascript:void(0)" onclick="if(document.getElementById(\'b_7157\').style.display == \'none\'){document.getElementById(\'b_7157\').style.display=\'block\';}else{document.getElementById(\'b_7157\').style.display=\'none\';}if(this.style.background.search(\'https://www.psychforums.com/styles/prosilver/theme/images/blog/min_dark_blue.gif\') != -1){this.style.background = \'url(https://www.psychforums.com/styles/prosilver/theme/images/blog/max_dark_blue.gif)\'; this.style.backgroundPosition = \'0px 12px\';}else{this.style.background = \'url(https://www.psychforums.com/styles/prosilver/theme/images/blog/min_dark_blue.gif)\'; this.style.backgroundPosition = \'0px 12px\';}" onmouseover="this.style.backgroundPosition = \'0px 12px\';" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundPosition = \'0px 0px\';" style="margin: 5px 3px 0 3px; float: left; background-image: url(https://www.psychforums.com/styles/prosilver/theme/images/blog/max_dark_blue.gif); background-position: 0px, 0px; width: 12px; height: 12px;" /><a href="https://www.psychforums.com/blog/Psychology/is_this_weird%CA%94_i%CA%B9m_having_unwanted_sexual_thoughts_and_anxiety_c-3_u-262074_b-7157.html">Is this weird? I'm having unwanted sexual thoughts and anxiety</a></div><div id="b_7157" style="display: none; padding: 5px 5px 2px 15px; font-size: 0.9em; border-bottom: 1px dotted #DDDDDD;">Hello. I have been diagnosed with anxiety for a few years now. I am a sixteen year old girl, and I often struggle with intrusive thoughts. My latest anxiety has been sexual thoughts, and feeling guilty about everything. For example, my mom was doing something (I don&#039;t even remember what) and was sitting down and was in her underwear, though i couldn&#039;t tell if she was naked or not. I looked over at her for whatever reason and just kind of instinctively looked down at her crotch area (I have no idea why I do that when I accidentally see someone naked, even a family member) and afterwards, I felt like I looked too long or it was creepy of me. I have no attraction to my mother or anything. But my anxiety has been making me worry about it all day. I even kind of forced myself to glance at hers and other people&#039;s butts to prove to myself that it wasn&#039;t weird and they&#039;re just body parts, etc.  But this kind of thing happens to me constantly, especially when I&#039;m tired. I also always feel guilty and like I&#039;m hurting my boyfriend for having these thoughts and doing these things. Is it weird that I glanced at my mom like that? I&#039;m sorry if this is a strange question, but I appreciate your answers. Peace and love.</div>');
		
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We&#039;ve broken up and fought many times over the past but everything always goes back to normal once he&#039;s done with that particular cycle. I know it sounds awful to go through but I am willing to and it is worth it to me. I&#039;d never hold it against him because I&#039;ve done my fair share of learning about the disorder and I know that he can&#039;t help it. I love him and I want to see him happy and I know I make him happy it&#039;s just when he gets moody it&#039;s always me. And I know that when he doesn&#039;t know what&#039;s wrong he&#039;s going to take it out on the person closest to him which is me, and I know I can&#039;t do anything about it, and that sucks. We&#039;ve talked about his disorder before and he realized that I&#039;m the only one who&#039;s there for him. <br /><br />Now getting to what&#039;s going on right now, we hadn&#039;t fought in two months and everything was perfect and I knew that it was long overdue for him to go through a depressive, angry or manic cycle. Last Sunday I saw him and everything was fine, then that night when he was working he texted me and told me he was depressed, I know better than to ask him why or what&#039;s wrong so I just told him that if he needs me I&#039;m here but if he needs his space I understand. He told me that he needed some space he just didn&#039;t want to have to say it, so we didn&#039;t talk because I wanted to respect that he needed space. On valentines day, that tuesday, I didn&#039;t want to waste my card so I drove the hour to see him and I put it on his doorstep and I left, as to not bother him. In the middle of the night he sent me a long text saying how he needs someone more mature and how I&#039;m too negative and how he wants to break up. I&#039;m neither of those things. He said he&#039;s on a path to self discovery as well. After we talked about that I asked if he got my card and he said yes and no, that he got it but he didn&#039;t read it, he hid it from himself in case he has a change of heart like he does other times with the things I give him when stuff like this happens. <br /><br />We didn&#039;t talk all week and then today, Saturday, I don&#039;t know why but I had to say how I felt. So I sent him this long thing about how I felt and he was really nasty about it (which I was expecting). I just needed him to think about what he&#039;s doing. Also all week he has been tweeting all these sad song lyrics or he sounds happy. And in the past he&#039;s seemed happy and he would be out with his friends having a good time and not talking to me but that&#039;s expected and he&#039;d always come back. The last time I told him how I felt and how his bipolar disorder was affecting me (because he knew he was bipolar he just had no idea what it meant) he got really angry at first but he called me later and told me that I was right and that he was sorry. <br /><br />Everyone I&#039;ve tried talking to about this just tells me I need to tell him to go on medication. He&#039;s tried it and doesn&#039;t like it and it&#039;s not my place to push him to do so. I know the real reasons he&#039;s upset are because he&#039;s a 20 year old boy who thinks his life is over because he hasn&#039;t started college yet, and I&#039;ve been trying to help him to go to college, and I&#039;m in no way trying to hold him back. I know he&#039;s just going through a cycle and he&#039;s not being himself right now and all of the other times he&#039;s always come back. It&#039;s just never lasted this long. I know it can&#039;t be the same every time but I just wanted to see some other opinions. <br /><br />For now I just know I need to give him the space he needs and respect that and hopefully he&#039;ll come back sooner or later. I&#039;ve been told I should leave him countless times by others but that&#039;s not what I want to do in the least bit. <br /><br />Opinions? Advice?</div>');
		
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