Women are not your healers! They expect you to heal first and function before you get involved with them; as hard as this seems!
Women are looking for you to protect them and be strong! If you are not strong, they are not interested in you; seems to be biology!
Some could argue that Im wrong! Many cases of guys getting out of jails with no place to go who need help and women take them in; same for the drug addict! Same for the guy that just lost his job!
However, with a closer look at the preserved loser in society; one see that these gents are not so broken as society would suggest! The criminal and drug addict can survive on the streets and in jails! They are not weak; just down on their luck!
The guy that just lost the job is strong enough to have a job and compete for a job! So he is actually not weak!
Weak people or men cannot approach or interact with women! They cannot handle this level of reality! Unless they can show a women they can handle reality in another form; they are out! A women will not find them attractive!
Women find men attractive according to their strength!
ITs easy to get mad at women because of this! But biologically; it seems women are set up this way!
Women are set up to be taken care of or respond to a man of strength! A man has to have the ability to show something; even showing sensitivity is a form of strength! But he must have the confidence to show something when up n front of her! If he has no strength to approach her or shake her hand or look her in the eyes or be a performance artist in front of her or make her laugh! This is an indication that he cannot sustain himself or a relationship!