I had my first outer adventure... I hooked up with a friend from the meetings, we got his boat and trader and took it to the marina, Got it set up in the water, and went for the first season ride... It was great. And it was great to have new friends, and a speed water skiing boat to have fun!
So things are changing!
We talked about women! Something sad! When you start dating, its a sign the past relationships are over, even if they never developed into what you wanted...
I waited for my father my whole life and he never came back! I never wanted to alive again! I missed part of my childhood and all of my developmental years..
I lucked out holding on! Therapist, the state help, 12 step groups and years of work! and study of socialization in the modern world!
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My friend and I were talking about women! The one thing I noticed. You have to come out of your dream world and ask people out to coffee. If you don't understand the dating situation; get online and look it up. Start with attraction and dating!
understanding the opposite sex is extremely important! having relationships with the opposite sex as an adult is extremely important for success! for a successful life!
Now it is moving forward! God is in charge, not me! and I have to remember this!
My goal as it unfolds; keep practicing and studying the approach of women; talking, laughing, asking out! keep studying the materials until I get a feel for it! and keep practicing.
practice can be as simple as saying a few words then walking off. Its all about communication, approach and interaction!
Its about practice!
Im still intimidated by beautiful women, but I attract the better looking beautiful women! I just do! and this makes things hard; they always have the stronger afla guys in the group interested, so I have to act fast! And I have not been able to act fast!
I have been confused and scared of by the guys some of these girls sit with as protectors.
Right now, I have no girls Im interested in! The next step is to step up the ability to talk to anyone! Go find out where the girls hang out! hit the proper channels of introduction and start talking!
Practice starts with a hello to strangers...