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| Author: | OMNICELL [ Fri Jul 19, 2019 3:41 pm ] |
| Blog Subject: | Things are changing again |
Things are changing again; Im getting new perspective. . Im with the understanding that the past must be deflated; I got some 30 different areas; family, institutions; experiences within those institutions, families; systems; that must be deflated; they have to much power over me because my whole childhood; 0-18 was a catastrophe of horror, let down, disappointment, out rage, surge, horror, terror, humiliation, degradation, rape; holocaust. . My earlier life is a successions of horror; and thats all it was; fear at a tremendous inhuman level; the buildings, the people in the buildings and the neighboring countrysides; the schools; all of it. . I've got the beginning place I lived; the town; from the beginning of my life. I then have the new town I lived in; my home town and the neighborhood I lived in; the house I lived in; the Grandparents from that town; a place I later had to live and their house and that neighborhood. I have the schools I attended; the grade school when living in my childhood house; I have the the continuation of grade school while living at the Grandparents house and the junior high. I have the new house with my mother in a new city on the coast; and the school I had to attend; the horror of that; that was in 6th grade. I then had to come back to my home town. . From the 8th grade; I have to move back in with my mother at the coast; this is 9th grade; that house; that neighborhood and its bullies and that school system; including high school. . Senior in high school; a most hideous situation. The house I lived in; my false best friend and his family; then the high school with its bullies and indifferent teachers... . Then college years! And all of this must be looked at and deflated and worked through. . The relatives; a false situation I should have never been exposed to. They were complete strangers; I was unfortunately; for them and me; It was unfortunate I had to associate with them. . I would say; Im making my point. I have allot of institutions to deflate.. . Some things are or have been getting deflated. The best friend, his family and his house; deflated. The neighborhood I grew up in deflated. My childhood house; 30% deflated; or 20% deflated. . The first girl I loved and thought I would marry; that has been deflated. IT was deflated because Ive successfully recreated the situation in the present and with practice; Ive been able to interact emotionally with people that had emotional feelings for me in the present (women). I was able to walk over to them; I was able to allow them to walk over to me; Ive intimately told them how I feel; they've told me how they feel; and thats thats; their is more to it; but you get the point; the reader should get it; understand; its been completed. IF I was 14 again' meeting my future wife; this time; at 16 years old; I now have the ability to have walked up to her and talked to her about what was happening to me and stayed with her. The point; if I could have walked up to her and talked to her when 16; I can now meet new women and new relationships and continue down my life journey with a new family; no more living in the past. not necessary; However, Im extremely week... reality is a very hard place for me... . This problems extend into music and art; lots of hardened horror associated with these concept from birth. So; the goal is to deflate music and art... thats one goal; that I be able to make music and art again. . Im changing; the key is; working with the universe; how to deflate these horrific things of the past that they may have no power over me anymore. . And the same deflation must occur with school work; I could have done many things; what ever I put my mind to; but it was all stolen from me through fear and trauma. So; nothing was accomplished in the school system. . So; the school system; college system; home work; learning, studying. preparing for tests and such; all of those things; And I can feel fear when mentioning all that; Im looking to deflate such things. . . So; things are looking up for me; much work must be done. Goals continue. The most important goal right now is art work; an art show. . . The next goal is a girlfriend; the problem with this; again; delation of having a girlfriend;; its bee to larger then life; as if she is going to dominate me or be the enemy; I have to see her as a friend. Ive seen everything as negative and hostile and it must stop; cant have a vision of such things. . And let me say; concerning the survival in the 12 step meeting system; forgive all people in these meetings; constantly, then return to the meetings; don't be stupid; continue to keep those of no conscious at bay; and disregard the rest. |
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