The phobia I have of being up close and personal with a women is at this point; turning into a phobia; this is a step up from the horrors of being pulled away from others from dissociate disorder; PTSD!
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So, the goal is use success based thinking tools to conquer this phobia! This includes visualizations of what I want; being up close in a women's tension! being confident, entertaining, performing! Making a women laugh while looking her in the eyes! and many more things!
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How well I get long with guys in a tribe will determine how well Im able to approach those women in that tribe! Popularity with the tribe and feeling part of the tribe; this is important for me!
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No one says I like all this tribe stuff! Im above others general values; Ive got my own and I stand alone? not exactly! First, one must be in the tribe and part of the tribe to get women! its all about getting women! its exciting and tribal! and I have to become part of that tribe!
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So; Im working on; I love to be up and close and in the tension of women" I love the feeling of being up close looking in a women's eyes an getting vulnerable!