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Women and dating
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The changes are occurring on verge of getting old.
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Im not hating life right now
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Women and dating

Permanent Linkby OMNICELL on Sat Jan 25, 2020 4:44 pm

Dating is about coming up to speed.
Im not up to speed; Im nowhere near the quality right now to do much of anything; but I get it. And I can see what I want and what was taken from me and where Im going; the journey; and Im on that journey. Right now; Im fixating on the starting point of that journey; and that will be the beginning; and the beginning of life; the original expression of innocence and life; that is where I start; ground zero. and from their; I express myself outward in imagination; and from their; the next step. And so; I allow myself; my mind to wonder to the next step; What is the next step; and no controlling it; let it go... where will it land.
Here is an example of being at the beginning and going the next step...
Lets say I throw the foot ball with my friends in the backyard of my house as a boy. And then I meditate on this; then what happens. What is the next step; suddenly In my imagination Im lost and it's dark. Suddenly Im in the unknown. and if I hang on; new thoughts come to me. I see myself throwing the football in the park... I see myself throwing the football with others; new people; older people; and the football is thrown further; and Ive met new friends and a team forms; Now Im playing football on a team.
In order to move from one area; where Im at; to a new area in my imagination; I must meditate; and allow the boat to go down the energy river and tie my hands up and stay out of it; just float down the river; dont control anything.... nothing; stay out of it. let it float until it meanders and docks itself on the shore. and when it does; Ill look around and get out of the boat; and see what is their... and start another life experience...
So; Im at this place of being back in nursery school; re experiencing it; and then looking up in the middle of the play ground in the backyard. Looking up with my hands in the air and just letting go; and allowing my energy to flow upward; and then what! Whats the next area I land on....
And it is this journey of allowing to the next landing point; I will be blind for a while; while I make my way through the dark; and then the light will return and I will land on a new planet somewhere and a new destination... and start a new life experience.. and that is what Im working on; staying out of the way; the control.
Im getting somewhere doing this. hopefully to fill in the gaps to retrain my mind to only what I want to see and head it in the direction I want; with no other thoughts creeping in....
I can see a future in this... I can see me changing. I becoming myself again with purpose and direction... And I see it.
Ive got a hurdle I must explore right now and walk through or face; Ill get their; lots of grieving and pain in this; Ill come up to speed in this thing; that is what Im working on...

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The changes are occurring on verge of getting old.

Permanent Linkby OMNICELL on Tue Jan 21, 2020 6:39 pm

Im 57 years old. I feel OK! I feel fine. Im OK.
I started writing here on this site in 2011. I love blog writing; I don't care all that much for; as much for writing comments to others posts; I don't mind it; but on this site I center mainly on blogs... its how I get my feelings out. I need company; not to be alone. I love expressing myself in a busy thoroughfare; I like allot of people around me; but to have my personal power not to be bugged by anyone at the same time; anonymity.
I was thrown away young because he psychopaths; dumped from the the house I lived in first; dumped by the family I came from. dumped by psychopaths. As soon as they could get away with it; I was destroyed.... They did not want me to be superior; they wanted to be in positions of superiority; and could not stand that I wanted my own life; they were not going to allow that so I was destroyed. Later when I had to live with them again; my position was turned. When little I had a father at home; so no psychopath could get away with hurting me In general; they still tried. And they kept it up my whole life until I was sold down the river at age 9 or then completely at age 10. And that hurts to talk about; that moment I was given away or gotten rid of from my house and way of life; It was like being sucked up into a vacuum cleaner never to be seen again; and then the vacuum cleaner taken to the dump; and I have no idea where Im going or why....
Things are changing for me; I read about the process of change; its about a 7 step process; Im between 5-7 of the steps. Im now making real changes Ive created and Ive moved forward; and thats the key. ITs real change in the face of those of my PTSD past that sill control the inside of me. Ive busted a hole through and Im now taking the chance to explore it.
I have PTSD flash backs and 2 sets of childhood memories; meaning; I was kidnapped to a new location; thats how I see it; and had a new set of memories from that place to add on or take the place of my original goals I would have experienced at that time...
Im working through the hole.... I seem to be holding my own. On the other side of the hole is what ever I chose it to be; to work at and make happen. To do this; I have to learn how to work for what I want and to have the self esteem. Having self esteem is a hard thing but possible.
TO work at something means Im in charge regardless; not someone else. I dont want anyone in charge of my life accept me.
Ive practiced and followed the book; Think and grow Rich; Napoleon Hill. It's required to read the thing 10 times before I actually get the deeper meanings; some read it 20 times or more; or for ever. Ive read it about 8 times... and I have a few more times to allow it to sink in more. From their; Abraham Hicks success based thinking work. Youtube; And from there; various online LOA coaches.
This is what Im finding; Im still mentally ill; Still have long term CPTSD problems.
Things are working out; Sexual abuse is something else; that time period were someone gets to put their hands on me without my permission; that causes internal hey-wiring and confusion. and all the other problems; like wanting to blow up the world...
Sexual abuse is a problem; but I have another part developed in me.... And that part is working; its gaining... even tho I have history of being sexually abused; Im still making headway with he success stuff Im interested in; I've had to blow up walls and holes that were stopping me; and I still am.... And I continue to develop in this area.
what does this mean; it means Im a damaged person that is heading toward a goal... whenI get their; I'm still damaged but satisfied.
I attend 12 step meetings all the time; I would never attempt recovery alone.. never; or to have success. never.
Attitude is everything and is he most sought after experience or skill and it requires all other...

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Permanent Linkby OMNICELL on Sat Jan 18, 2020 1:39 am

I started out in life loving music and wanting to play instruments; of course this never happened because of the psychopaths I was living with.
later; when I had to move around to house to house with people that looked down on me and thought I was filth trash. I was not allowed to be me; to be myself; I was suppose to play this weirdo nothing slave like character; this loser that was suppose to look up to that like they were my massa- Yez- massa- No! Massa-; what ever you say massa- Like I was a slave from the 17th century.
My ability to be free was silenced; I could not longer play music or be he depth filled person I was born to be; it was all taken; all of my identity was ruled out. I was ruined. And my thoughts concerning music and playing an instrument are all mangled and broken up; I have to work with God to change them so I can be myself again; this will take some work...
I find I dissociate everything Ive written above.... It goes away... Im trying hold on to it. Its not easy....
I want to get over bulling. I have bad faces and things from the past. I didn't ask for it; and I dont know how to process it accept through emir and new visualizations; changing my thinking....
Its hard to change my thinking but Im willing to do it; ive been holding on to memories that I had not seen for a long time within myself. and Its all I had but they were fake people I was associating with.
So; I have allot of bad people that got away with murder concerning me... Im in pain. Lots of overwhelming pain.
I have to get rid of this fear of attack or that I can be used and bowled over so easily; Like I cannot protect myself; and is all PTSD.. Im getting their; Im dealing with a horrible thing right now to get over this; its tied into my early childhood and through my early 20s and more...... Unbelievable.
Im not sure what to do about bulling; I have to or want to get over it.... it hurts; the humiliation.
Im trying to come back to being the real me. its hard; I dont want to be closed out....

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Im not hating life right now

Permanent Linkby OMNICELL on Thu Jan 16, 2020 4:46 am

Im beginning to memorize again; this is what is needed in school to succeed...
Im not in normal school right now... Or am I. Im in that learning mode. So; Im working on things...
Im doing more than learning on things. Im studying music; this time to perform. In order to perform I have to memorize; and Im learning how right now.
Half able to feel part of things again... How do I say this? Im in a lot of 12 step meetings and feeling better about it.
Im feeling like Im more part of a family system; Never thought that would ever happen again never. IT means Im getting my childhood memories back; Im remembering when I felt safe as a child for a few years; My memories; and the independence I felt and thought; and its transferring from then to now...
In the near past; I could not be in a house or a neighborhood ever again.
Im starting to feel half way a part of things...
Im not sure; I Was at a meeting tonight and someone said their life was a Lot Lot better and they give the credit to God; It wasn't them; they just followed God.

So; Im starting to memorize. and its been 50 years.
The last time I remember processing anything was during a time period of this movie; Bless he beasts and he children. Or; that was the song.... Or; The bed wetters; that may have been the movie...
Perfect; and their It is; Alive again in my mind; and the reason; because Im coming up to speed; up to that time period; yes; Im not fully their yet; meaning; here; but dam. Im getting their. all worth it. That was the last time I processed my feelings and felt powerful in my personal life; not under terror.... terror had not happened yet. But it will very soon after this; and I had no idea it was coming. Now; Im coming back. And I loved this movie and it was my time; just like young people today; it is your time.. same thing.
Bless the Beasts and Children is a 1971 film adaptation of the novel of the same name written ... The designation "Bedwetters" applies especially well to Gerald Goodenow, the sixth member of the group, who often wets the bed at night – a ...
Release date‎: ‎June 1971 (West Germany); This was a film about the young people and how they felt vs the older generation. My generation was. " We are the young generation; and we've got something to say"..... 1963 to about 1972.... I was born in 62... So; I was right in the middle of it....
So; Things are picking up for me; Im still not present. But Im slowly participating in life again; taking chances to begin small things that are building my life... Im not so detached as before... Im starting to wake up again. But its more then wake up.... Im starting to live again and feel again; but in a kind of controlled therapeutic way; Im still in the hospital; if you will; Im not able to handle the outside world yet; but Im getting closer; more confidence; it will happen. But its slow work when one has been destroyed.

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Permanent Linkby OMNICELL on Mon Jan 13, 2020 2:26 pm

Real things are going on; moving forward; on n on and getting better about my understanding of how or why I change my thinking.
My goal is success; I take this to the universe. Unfortunately I have a thug mentality; this means I want to be worshipped like a God when I haven't earned it; I pat myself on the back because Ive survived bad things and that qualifies me as a thug; an identity that not everyone can be a part of. However, the real world for thugs is not real; its violence and death and other illegal substances; and those substances can also include bad or evil or violent thinking.... Basically a thug is violence; nothing more; it's an on off switch of street soldier mentality. In my opinion thugs are either complete sociopaths or on drugs; drugs that make them psychopaths or act out in behaviors of psychopaths... or a combination of both.
Heres the problem; do I want to be the top of thug heap and admired; top of the savages; that would feel righteous and good; or do I want allot of money! ITs as simple as that....
What I think when I wake up in the morning will determine what level of vibration Im on for the day. If Im thinking about money; piles of it; vats of it; boxes full of it; and I see it in my head with a favorable opinion; thats what will be brought to me at some point because thats what Im focusing on. Momentum is not strong at first; Im not up to speed; Ive got a journey to experience that brings that vibration up to a high mark and a journey that will close the get; thus; taking me to the money; but if I continue to see money in my head and align my vibration with my inner beings and we are in unison and Im willing to stay at a positive High vibration during the day; Ill soon be presented with opportunities to receive money or a pathways that will lead me to such things; such riches.
My most important and sought after riches?; a good attitude. A good attitude is my number 1# riches; for with a pleasing and prosperous and enthusiastic attitude about any movement; I can go anywhere and do anything and Ill appreciate it and love it; and Im working toward this and it puts a smile on my face and in my heart.... It is my number one goal and it is right with God, with man, with my heart and with me... Its a great thing to work toward...

The work is in the pathways.
My thinking is the problem; when I think about money or something else I want; for a split second I see what I want with a favorable attitude; then suddenly it goes bad; its warped and filled with fear and anger; the thoughts; and suddenly flashbacks and bad thinking of bad people; people who I have resentments for; it all creeps in and weakens my original attempts at focusing on what I want; So; their it is; theirs the problem; my thinking meanders to bad people and places and things and this thinking takes me over and for some reason; I blame you and everyone else because of how Im thinking; its the worlds fault; and this type of attitude is thuggery; Its born of thuggery; giving me a reason to be a thug; but what about the money; who's going to concentrate on the money....
So; when Im at a higher level of feelings; pathways open up around me and will I take the oopporulntity?
How bad do I want the money; have I been focusing on the money or the lack of the money in my life. So; the work is to focus on the money; and if I get bad thoughts popping in; pull out immediately; go general; switch thinking; think about something else. Then go back to the money thoughts; practicing over n over; more n more n more; any negative thoughts that I stray to; get out of them and go general and then go back to the money thoughts and keep at it for the rest of my life. Soon; pathways will open that lead to the money.
The vibration must be strong enough to attract what I want. So; momentum must build; this does not happen at the beginning of my fantasy; it must be built. Over time it becomes...

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