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| Author: | OMNICELL [ Thu Dec 29, 2016 7:56 pm ] |
| Blog Subject: | Dating; the reality in the trenches! |
Being " in the game"! Is like being in a war! no one owes you nothing! its a free for all! You take a chance and see what happens! You roll the dice! You do the best you can! you keep at it; if you want the girl! What if she doesn't want you; or she flakes! try again with her; then move on to a new one! and this is the way the game is played! The real player knows she's going to flake, so you have to learn how to help the situation! You want her attraction! you keep working on her! meaning, making her laugh! Soon, she will love being around you, and will not say no to hanging out with you! But adult women are not in junior high! they have money problems, car problems, housing problems, work problems, they have kids; kid problems! relation problems, parent problems, health problems! They get flakey! They want someone their own age with money and a normal life!~ I dont blame them! It my job to show them otherwise; Its my job to sweep them off their feet and wanting to come back to such an interesting person as myself is! Is this easy, not; Im not a sociopath! I have feelings! its hard, rejection is hard! Im like anyone in the dating game! You got to keep working at it, more experience, meeting new people! Anyone in the dating game knows; all those women that you thought were going to go out with you; none of them turn out so easy! and it shocks you and it rocks you; but you got to get over it! Keep meeting knew people! you never know whats going to happen when you actually tell her to give you her number! It takes skill! The best situation is where your so positive and into her, its a smooth transition for faith in you being safe! it takes a lot of work! Im at this place where Im learning again and practicing! so; Ill go out with almost anyone I think is cute and half civilized! Ive worked through the " women with children thing"! this scares allot of men! Men dont have a realistic grasp on this! your dating the women because you want to! so go do it! She is the manager of her house, her children; not me! I dont have to worry about it! its not my realm! Im the protecter! Im the guy! Im not at the fire pit with her! Im out in the jungle, making sure everything is safe! However, allot of us guys are wounded animals, not capable of much more then being taken care of! many times I wanted a women to take care of me; be my Grandmother, my mother, my sister, nun, counselor! The truth is, Im suppose to be the one helping her out! taking care of her! The real question is; what do I want! When I see her, what do I want! Do I want some kind of relationship with her or not! yes or no! decide, then take action! |
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| Author: | Snaga [ Fri Dec 30, 2016 12:24 am ] |
There's someone for everyone; just keep being yourself, and remember that finding the perfect someone, is like finding a unicorn- not likely. But there is someone for everyone, I feel. And that someone is out there, somewhere. |
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