So; Im dealing with bulling; its such a horrible hard subject; such a personal let down and demoralization; I hate it; Ive not been able to face anyone or look them in the eyes; However, the biggest bulling occurred by the people I was forced to grow up with; and that damage is causing most of my problems.
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Im trying to get over a situation that occurred a few days ago; a crazy guy I don't like was walking toward me; done it several times; I could not understand how anyone would allow this person to walk around with a giant piece of wood swinging it like it was a weapon as he walks down the side walk; Im thinking; why are the cops allowing this; its more then just intimidating when walking by someone like this. I would walk on the other side of the street and not afraid to show that Im moving to the other side of the street when he was present. I did this several times.
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Im scared of bullies; Im passive aggressive with bullies; I might act tough; but Ive never been in a real fight before; and I do not know how to punch anyone or anything. If I got into a fight; I would loose, end up thrown down and punch out and crawl up into a little ball and be beaten on; and the bully would be that much more invincible. And I would be that much more demoralized. And thus; thats whats happening to me psychologically.
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So; I don't know how to fight nor have I ever been in a fight; I don't know the first real thing to do in a fight; nothing. and Im to old for it now.
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But Im scared and intimidated by bullies. I don't like them; I go passive around them and go into shock and freeze mode.
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Im passive aggressive around them; but don't care; they bate me; and they used to bate me in high school; I was so traumatized i could not do any school work; nothing. No one cared; I care now.
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The bully does not care about me or value me and I don't like filth like this around me; thats what was upsetting me; that the filth was around me in the first place. I don't f__king care.
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So; Im frightened of bullies; Ill run and hide or bow down and fall into a ball and roll up until its over. Ident want to fight anyone; I don't even know how to throw a punch or accurately defend against a punch; nothing. Im scared to death; my ego, of being put down physically because I go completely passive.
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Im so disturbed and intimidated when I see a bully; I envy their lack of respect for fear; they are fearless and I am not.