Ive finally broken into the dating barrier. aligning with my higher power; women are showing up and Im asking them out. These are quality women; middle women; nice women; " SAFE" women.
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What is safety; they care enough about me to stay monogamous... Altho we are not married. But you get the point. They have middle class values; they are not practicing hypergamy or monkey branching... or convenience loyalty. They care enough about me... thats the kind of women Ive been presented with... In the past I would dissociate from these women and could not get near them; causing me to only ask out women I did not like because I was not ready and had not dealt with my past.
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Now; Im getting right in their grill and asking them out on the spot; the right ones; the ones Im aligned with...
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The 2 big issues; Safety and society.
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"SAFETY"; Number one issue when dating someone... I read a post of a gentleman scream about the fact his wife called him and told him she was not in love with him; was only married to him for the money and house and car... He claimed this keeps happening to him and doesn't believe in love anymore. This is an example of " UNSAFE"; Im looking for safety... Im looking for faithful people who have my back; someone where; I mean something to them; They mean something to me...
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Safety means; they care. They care enough to show me they are safe and decent and nice. So; Im looking for safe and decent and nice..
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Im getting close.
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Now; I write new stories about being with women that are single and want to date me and are the right kind of women; those are the ones I want to attracted...
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I visualize what I want.
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SOCIETY;
Society for me means; Letting someone new into my personal space. In order to do this; I have to be in some kind of society to start with and I am.. Im now in a maze of men forming a tribe and learning how to live within them as friends... From this I know these men have my back.. and I can move forward with further relationships because Im ready to invite society into my living room. For a long time I have not been ready because I did not get over my childhood being destroyed out from under me... So; Im writing stories about women that want to be in my life; want to say yes when I ask them out and are single. At some point these single women of quality will show; they are ready have and are. I just have to keep writing stories about meeting them single and dating them...