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Author:  Hallusinating [ Tue Mar 19, 2013 5:05 am ]
Blog Subject:  The green grass

Many years ago i fell in love with a foreigner who lived in another country.

I met him on a holiday and we quickly hit it off.

When i came back i wanted to met him again and so i told my mother about the affair.

I was renting a flat from my mother and stepfather, that was under theirs.

She told me that it was a bad idea to invite him because he would probably just come over to our country to find a job.

Since i rented from them i couldn`t invite him.

Many years later my sister went to the US, where she fell in love with a man.

She ended up getting pregnant and wanted to stay in the US but she didn`t get the green card, even if she had married the man(who was from the US).

He came to Norway to live with her.

Its just another example of how "free" i was.

The strange thing is that, that sister at that time (before she went to the US), had a boyfriend who had the same name as the one i dated. She actually had that boyfriend (with the same name) after i had mine.

Apparently my mother is the only one who is allowed to marry who ever she wants to.

It is also important to mention that her current husband is a foreigner who didn`t have the right to stay in our country permanently until he got married to my mother...?

Just thought i would mention that. He came over on a research fellow, and was only meant to stay here for a short while.

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