Even though I have no intention of disclosing the 'label' to anyone in real life, it's very, very helpful to have it. So, everything's not just me being weird. Or, it is. But I'm weird in ways that other people are too. And none of these traits are something I have to fix, unless I want to.
Also, this is the most reassuring read on the subject, gratitudes to WichitaLineman for posting it in the SPD Resources section: (yes, but WHY is BBCode off?)
http://books.google.com/books?id=BzPOAWB2DncC&lpg=PP1&dq=psychoanalytic%20diagnosis&pg=PA196#v=onepage&q&f=false