by Gemini_Incarnate » Fri Sep 11, 2015 8:29 pm
If you're wanting to know what he should call you, Female doms that play "Daddy dom" type roles are usually referred to as Mommy dommes. They aren't as common as their male counterparts, but they do exist. Of course, if you actually enjoy being referred to by a male term, then more power to you .
As for being a good dom? Well, that depends on many factors. Most BDSM forum sites have detailed guides and suggestions for many types of BDSM , But here are a few general things to keep in mind:
* In all relationships communication and trust are important, but this is especially true for BDSM relationships. Try to reserve a time for you and your sub to talk as people outside of your roles, amd never assume that he'll be okay withh something that has not been discussed beforehand
* If your forms of discipline involve some type of impact-based punishment such as spanking or Flogging, then be careful when administering these punishments, especially if you're angry or annoyed: It's very easy to hit someone harder than you mean to when you're upset.
* If some sort of restraint or movement restriction is being employed (bondage, cages), make sure you stay near him. This is a safety issue more than anything.
* Make sure that the experience is one that you will both enjoy. BDSM is a partnership.
-- Fri Sep 11, 2015 2:30 pm --
If you're wanting to know what he should call you, Female doms that play "Daddy dom" type roles are usually referred to as Mommy dommes. They aren't as common as their male counterparts, but they do exist. Of course, if you actually enjoy being referred to by a male term, then more power to you .
As for being a good dom? Well, that depends on many factors. Most BDSM forum sites have detailed guides and suggestions for many types of BDSM , But here are a few general things to keep in mind:
* In all relationships communication and trust are important, but this is especially true for BDSM relationships. Try to reserve a time for you and your sub to talk as people outside of your roles, amd never assume that he'll be okay withh something that has not been discussed beforehand
* If your forms of discipline involve some type of impact-based punishment such as spanking or Flogging, then be careful when administering these punishments, especially if you're angry or annoyed: It's very easy to hit someone harder than you mean to when you're upset.
* If some sort of restraint or movement restriction is being employed (bondage, cages), make sure you stay near him. This is a safety issue more than anything.
* Make sure that the experience is one that you will both enjoy. BDSM is a partnership.
Alters:
Levi [INFP]
*Meow* ^^
Aaron [ESTP]
"Live and let live, lest bigotry be the death of us all."