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How Can I Live Harmoniously With My Aspie Husband?

Postby complexsimple » Sat Oct 20, 2018 3:30 am

I really need for my husband and I to make changes before it's too late.
He's very fussy about small details, how can I cope with this? He's always trying to 'educate me' on better ways of doing things.
How can I make him understand my needs?

I want him to do things I like without complaining about it. How can we compromise?

Can anyone give some advice on how to live harmoniously?

What can I do to help him understand when he's being insensitive and acting inappropriately.
I don't quite feel connected and feel quite lonely in the relationship.
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Re: How Can I Live Harmoniously With My Aspie Husband?

Postby shock_the_monkey » Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:05 pm

lesson 1: stop banging your head against a brick wall.

lesson 2: accept people for who they are.

lesson 3: make your own happiness.

some people cling to marriages that aren't working simply because they've nowhere else to go and/or they're too afraid of starting over. no amount of advice will ever really help them. marriage shouldn't be the foundation of anyone's life. it's the icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
something knocked me out' the trees
now i'm on my knees
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

there is one thing you must be sure of
i can't take any more
... don't you know you're gonna shock the monkey

don't like it but i guess i'm learning

... shock the monkey to life
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