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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby solemnlysworn » Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:26 pm

Greebo wrote:I’ve not spoken to him but terms like dispersed or scattered are usually what come to mind to describe courtiers personality when he’s not focused on something.

In fact the way I visualise it is as a consciousness floating free without any attachment in a cloud of personality dust, which coalesces into a solid whole when stimulated and then atomises again when there isn’t any motivation to hold it together.

That’s not a psychodynamic analogy btw, just the impression I get. I’m sure he’d score as an extrovert on a self report test but I wonder sometimes if traits like introversion and extroversion can really be applied to a personality characterised primarily by it’s absence in that way.


Lol. You saying I have no personality Greebo? :)

But yes quite insightful. I was afraid of trying to describe this without resorting to Christian Bale
https://youtu.be/CAEq3mdOYBU?t=118

ZeroZ wrote:So Reaper and SS its been suggested might be identifying or maybe forcing a personality trait that isn’t natural to their core personality.

Where was that suggested? I read Greebo quite differently here to you, if you meant the post I just quoted. Though, it wouldn't be the first blunder I've made on a Greebo post this week and so it's quite possible that I need it explaining to me
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby Reaper » Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:30 pm

solemnlysworn wrote:
ZeroZ wrote:So Reaper and SS its been suggested might be identifying or maybe forcing a personality trait that isn’t natural to their core personality.

Where was that suggested?


I was wondering the same thing. I didn't see any post suggesting that. I responded to it anyway.
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby ZeroZ » Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:33 pm

Reaper you said he wasn’t extroverted because he was quiet on the phone. As far as Greebo I dunno sounded like that to me but who knows
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby Reaper » Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:56 pm

ZeroZ wrote:Reaper you said he wasn’t extroverted because he was quiet on the phone.


I said he doesn't come across as extroverted. I didn't say he's not. I personally don't believe he is, but I don't know him in real life, so I can't say for certain if that's true or not.

I never said anything about him forcing a personality trait that isn't natural to his core, and nobody as far as I can tell, even made that suggestion about me, except you of course:

So Reaper and SS its been suggested might be identifying or maybe forcing a personality trait that isn’t natural to their core personality


Do you just pull things out your ass here or what.
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby ZeroZ » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:09 pm

Reaper wrote:
solemnlysworn wrote:Probably hints at me being an extrovert


You've never come across as extroverted in any of the voice chats we've had. You seemed very introverted.

If you were extroverted it would show. You would have participated more in the group chats, but you were always very quiet, never really spoke much.


Did I misunderstand this too?
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby Reaper » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:15 pm

Feel free to show me where I said, or suggested, that he's forcing a personality trait that isn't natural to his core, because I'm not seeing it.

Your comment includes me as well, implying that someone else suggested that about both SS and I when nobody did at all.
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby ZeroZ » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:16 pm

Reaper wrote:Feel free to show me where I said, or even suggested, that he's forcing a personality trait that isn't natural to his core, because I'm not seeing it.

Your comment includes me as well, implying that someone else suggested that about both SS and I when nobody did at all.


Christ almighty, read that again, all of it. He’s testing as an extrovert and you said he can’t be because of the way he comes off. Therefore he is forcing the outcome of the test. And my statement was just a general thought not aimed at either of you, I just used it as an example because it made me think of something. You seem determined to take it personally so I won’t get in the way
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby Reaper » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:18 pm

You're gonna have to try harder than that, Z.
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby IDeerInHeadlightsI » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:26 pm

It's my stupid freaking mark of one year passed again and I figured out that I have literally achieved nothing. I still have no clue what I want to do in my life and I realised the only thing that I have done that's made me happy in my life is made candles.

Woop.
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Re: The Official Off Topic Thread

Postby justonemoreperson » Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:28 pm

Start a business selling candles.
I'm not arguing; I'm explaining why I'm right.
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