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My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Manners73 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:59 pm

It's a bit of a long story about the happenings at my workplace and some of its a tangled up mess all mixed in with psychosis and paranoia but the whole place has turned into a sort of "cold war zone".

It's mental.

Anyway, because of this I've found that I've kind of bonded with people who I would never even bother with usually just because there is a common enemy...

My question is...what are your experiences or opinions on this matter?

Thank you in advance.
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Seili » Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:25 pm

Enemies. Lol

I've had a few glasses with my golleagues today. And more to come.
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Manners73 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:33 pm

Yes lol :roll:

I have more than one.

How do you spell interested again?
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Seili » Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:44 pm

I work. How do you spell kiinnostunut?

My frends are my frends and others don't even matter.
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Manners73 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:46 pm

Hahaha... You're so beautiful when you get annoyed.
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Fool » Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:52 pm

Manners73 wrote:It's a bit of a long story about the happenings at my workplace and some of its a tangled up mess all mixed in with psychosis and paranoia but the whole place has turned into a sort of "cold war zone".

It's mental.

Anyway, because of this I've found that I've kind of bonded with people who I would never even bother with usually just because there is a common enemy...

My question is...what are your experiences or opinions on this matter?

Thank you in advance.


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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Manners73 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 7:13 pm

Yeah I get that.

It's not like we've become friends or even formed a formal alliance. But it's kind of apparent that there is a division between two sides of people.

I generally fight on my own and that is still the case and I've not even told the other people with the common ememy about my issue even though I know about theirs.

It's a really fcking odd situation.
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Seili » Fri Nov 08, 2019 7:30 pm

Why is it such a big deal?
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby Manners73 » Fri Nov 08, 2019 7:37 pm

Wait a minute....
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Re: My Enemies Enemy Is My Friend...

Postby salles » Fri Nov 08, 2019 7:45 pm

Fool wrote:relationships are fickle and anyone who gravitates towards you because of shared contempt is probably just a liability in disguise

Yes.
I never trust it. A particular person bonds with me when we b1tch about the manager. Then when the manager is on, she acts like they are best buddies. The golden rule for me is there is NOONE at work, to trust enough to b!tch to, about anybody.
I try to be careful but anger gets the better of me and then I will do the opposite of what I resolved not to do.
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