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Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby ShaolinMonk » Thu Oct 03, 2019 3:31 am

After perusing the forum and briefly interacting with Saucygirl31, SS, Zeroz and various posts in the Porn thread, it seems that the strength of the male bond is related to penile stimulation. But not just any form. Saucy is intrigued by urethral stimulation and promptly SS shares his eye ball out of dogs with stiletto to 'bond'. And he did this publicly as some sort of public demonstration of the depth of his desire to "bond" with saucy.

It's a rather strange thing, as I've not come across anything even remotely similar in any of the literature or elsewhere. As such, it would be reasonable to conclude that this form of Bond maturation is specific to the psychforums version of 'AsPD.'

In conclusion it appears that raping ones own dick in the presence and for the pleasure of the object of desire is the bonding mechanism that is employed on psychforums. A mark of cultural identity and in group coherence.

Would you agree?
If not, please explain your reasoning.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby Reaper » Thu Oct 03, 2019 5:17 am

How is it an AsPD bonding mechanism when the people you mentioned don't even have AsPD...

One was diagnosed bipolar, but may have some AsPD traits, the other seems more schizoid than anything else, and the third does claim to have been diagnosed with AsPD, but going by his posts I'd say that's questionable (I'm not saying he's lying. I believe he was telling the truth about that and maybe it was true to his character years ago, but he doesn't come across as someone with AsPD these days).

This is just another useless thread to try and attack people certain members here.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby ShaolinMonk » Thu Oct 03, 2019 5:57 am

Well thank you for the explanation.

It wasn't an attack. It was curiosity. But none of those seemed to be up to explaining it, which is odd. But they have no problem popping out the questionable content of the bonding mechanism. Nor do the mods seems to have a problem with it, which is yet another oddity of inconsistency.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby ZeroZ » Thu Oct 03, 2019 11:46 am

I’m not really sure what you are trying to get at, the dick obsession seems to belong to you from what I can tell. These are all completely unrelated events as far as I can tell, I’m not really familiar with the Freudian concept of everything involves either your mother or sexual organs so maybe above my pay grade, but thanks for the invitation to play with my thing.

-- Thu Oct 03, 2019 6:56 am --

Reaper wrote:How is it an AsPD bonding mechanism when the people you mentioned don't even have AsPD...

One was diagnosed bipolar, but may have some AsPD traits, the other seems more schizoid than anything else, and the third does claim to have been diagnosed with AsPD, but going by his posts I'd say that's questionable (I'm not saying he's lying. I believe he was telling the truth about that and maybe it was true to his character years ago, but he doesn't come across as someone with AsPD these days).

This is just another useless thread to try and attack people certain members here.


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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby saucygirl31 » Thu Oct 03, 2019 1:17 pm

saucy was here.

wats the question again?
ur grill saucy.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby ShaolinMonk » Thu Oct 03, 2019 3:17 pm

Zeroz = Red herring :roll:
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby Squaredonutwheels » Thu Oct 03, 2019 6:35 pm

Men who are uncomfortable with male to male intimacy will often need a latent bridge to satisfy these needs which they may view as "homosexual" and hence will need to do more mental gymnastics to get around.

This bridge is often a "dirty joke" or objectifying a woman together. "Show me who you're f*cking"

The most interesting situations are gang bangs or cuckolding where a woman will be a platform in which men will vicariously interact with each other while maintaining their straight identity.

I am probably talking out of my ass as usual.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby saucygirl31 » Thu Oct 03, 2019 6:39 pm

"say bullsht w confidence" - donut
ur grill saucy.
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby Squaredonutwheels » Thu Oct 03, 2019 6:40 pm

yes hehe
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Re: Male AsPD bonding mechanism

Postby ShaolinMonk » Thu Oct 03, 2019 6:41 pm

Does read like something that fell out the backside of a bull.
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