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What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby IDeerInHeadlightsI » Wed Sep 18, 2019 5:08 pm

What would their habits, hobbies and personality be like?

Not appearance.
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby saucygirl31 » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:18 pm

tryna hop on path D, girl? ;)
edit: path C is good too on second thought.

my perfect partner would have no drug habits, a habit of sucking morning wood every day, be a non habitual liar, have good cooking and cleaning habits, habitually interest me with unique ways of thinking (non-disordered thought processes to challenge my own), habit of pretending they're not submissive but ultimately giving up control once I force them to, habit of looking me in the eyes when sucking cock, no habit of cursing, no religious habits unless they're open to indoctrination (which they will be), habit of working hard but playing harder, and a habitual cock sucker (i forgot if I mentioned that).
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby Aeva117 » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:32 pm

My perfect partner would be relatively similar to me. I can't deal with needy or clingy or over-emotional long-term. I want somebody to co-exist with, whose company I enjoy, and who enjoys the same sorts of experiences as I do. Believing in a god (actually, anything woo) or wanting kids are deal-breakers. They have to be able to hold an intelligent conversation and have a decent (twisted) sense of humor. As far as hobbies or anything like that, I don't really care. Although I did just date a girl that was into dead things too and that was cool. Shame she was boring in every other way.
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby ZeroZ » Wed Sep 18, 2019 8:31 pm

We would have to have a certain dynamic, I can’t explain it I just know when it’s there. We could bust each other’s balls prank each other, She would have to be fun like that. Not too emotionally needy be introverted, not need much human interaction but capable of doing stuff too. I always got a kick out of a chick that will try things so far outside their wheelhouse just to try it, I dated a prissy one but smoked a cigar with me, things like that. A 120lb girl puffing on a Monty Christo epic is a unique sight

Uninhabited sexually, not afraid to initiate occasionally I find that hot, takes it in the ass, if it hurts too bad even better it’s supposed too. Not afraid to go to a tittle bar and get a lap dance while I watch. Let’s see, ohh small to no family in case it doesn’t work out so nobody notices she’s missing, I could use someone who is organized and clean, I’m lazy with that shlt and my 14 year old niece could organize a get together better than I could. That’s all I can think of off the top of my head
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby saucygirl31 » Wed Sep 18, 2019 9:01 pm

ZeroZ wrote:small to no family in case it doesn’t work out so nobody notices she’s missing


ROFL.
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby xdude » Wed Sep 18, 2019 9:37 pm

Great question. Going to have to give it some thought, but off hand...

Definitely no religion, an no affinity to any particular politics. Always willing to stand up for herself, but also able to care about something, or someone, like my pet. Always asking questions, the ability to hold a real conversation over more then how is the weather? Great sex of course, but not always about the end goal. I guess in the end, the more of an independent thinker she is, that is what is hot. Just don't do stupid stuff that puts us both at risk. Oh and yea, if she loves cooking, good stuff, I am always up for trying out a new recipe (just don't get all weirded out because today might be steak and tomorrow I might want to make sushi or something crazy).
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby solemnlysworn » Wed Sep 18, 2019 10:37 pm

Explore, playfully and intensely

When I'm under her skin she doesn't want to be let go of

Offers up her vulnerability to be had and used

Wants to experience what it's like to feel every inch of herself be consumed and when it gets darker sees the beauty in it

Doesn't stop out of fear

Pulls me out of my head for the games and chase and reminds me when I'm off course

Willing to put herself to work when I need something

Lets herself feel everything
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby saucygirl31 » Wed Sep 18, 2019 10:39 pm

HAHAHAHA SO RAPEY I LOVE IT!!
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby solemnlysworn » Wed Sep 18, 2019 10:44 pm

You ever gone there saucy
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Re: What kind of habits would the perfect partner have for You?

Postby saucygirl31 » Wed Sep 18, 2019 10:46 pm

course not but what u said was beautiful.
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