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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Trivago » Wed Aug 14, 2019 7:45 am

That does appear to be the case. There is always an excuse for whatever the matter is, but no action on their part to change the situation, so leave them to their own devices. While others ( psuedo therapists) take it upon themselves to make a game of trying to run them into the ground for their own perverse form and giggles. That particular group of 'therapists' fall under the fruitcake category. The issues that plague that lot of freaks would triple the DSM breadth for bollox.

Depressed people only seem to affect themselves (and possibly those they land on) whereas other conditions directly affect others due to crazy violence etc.

Maybe put them in a stadium, charge people to watch, and then give them all acid and speed to see what happens.

That would fill the crypt coffers, wouldn't it?
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby justonemoreperson » Wed Aug 14, 2019 7:48 am

Trivago wrote:That would fill the crypt coffers, wouldn't it?


Or provide burger meat for the nuthouses.
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Trivago » Wed Aug 14, 2019 7:50 am

True that, but the nuthouses residents will be feeding on themselves soon enough anyways. Might as well profit before the fall.
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Schizological1 » Wed Aug 14, 2019 12:53 pm

I told my psychologist thoughts that people usually find disturbing, (but its no big deal for me), her body languege shows she is uncomfortable but she holds herself from responding like a normal person would as long as she knows i dont act on my urges
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Trivago » Wed Aug 14, 2019 1:47 pm

I told my psychologist thoughts that people usually find disturbing, (but its no big deal for me)

Contradiction exists in the statement. As if that is the case, why do you need to share those thoughts?
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby cinnamoncookie » Wed Aug 14, 2019 4:09 pm

justonemoreperson wrote:Physical illness is easy to treat - you get better, accept a life of disability or die.

Mental health is significantly more difficult to treat because there is no objective test; it's all talking and trying to glean the truth from a warped perspective.

[...] Very rarely do you get significant positive results that can be measured, so failure is expected and tolerated.


That's just not true. I've seen way, way more people get "cured" after therapy than I've seen them getting stuck in a vicious cycle, which they mostly create themselves and would with or without therapy.

How do you mean it can't be measured? The way you measure it is the less you care about measuring it the better you're doing.

I don't know if this is different for older adults, I definitely felt less pressure to be more "normal" coming from my therapists the older I got, but so far I'm not flat out expected to fail. Of course they have to tolerate it if you do, if they wouldn't and you did something crazy they'd be held responsible.

justonemoreperson wrote:I think that for many, social therapy is the better option (this forum being an example to a degree), where people with similar issues discuss what they deal with in practical terms. It stops the condition being unique and removes it as an excuse as to why things can't be improved.

Sometimes people do need a kick up the arse, but it needs to be done by people who are peers, not "betters."

It's called group therapy.
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Schizological1 » Thu Aug 15, 2019 12:03 am

Trivago wrote:
I told my psychologist thoughts that people usually find disturbing, (but its no big deal for me)

Contradiction exists in the statement. As if that is the case, why do you need to share those thoughts?


Because we were discussing my ways of hundling a situation that i struggle with, my 3 ways of dealing with it are either being submissive and complyient or taking control of the situation in a violent way, or being myself and forcing control over situation, and then people will then treat me like $#%^ becuz im an asshole
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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Trivago » Thu Aug 15, 2019 1:16 am

That's just not true.

He's right. And explained why .

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Because we were discussing my ways of hundling a situation that i struggle with, my 3 ways of dealing with it are either being submissive and complyient or taking control of the situation in a violent way, or being myself and forcing control over situation, and then people will then treat me like $#%^ becuz im an asshole


Nice one.
Hund and compLYIent.

Piss off

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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Schizological1 » Thu Aug 15, 2019 7:21 pm

Trivago wrote:
That's just not true.

He's right. And explained why .

Eldror
Because we were discussing my ways of hundling a situation that i struggle with, my 3 ways of dealing with it are either being submissive and complyient or taking control of the situation in a violent way, or being myself and forcing control over situation, and then people will then treat me like $#%^ becuz im an asshole


Nice one.
Hund and compLYIent.

Piss off

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That being said, looks like the problem is you, no?

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Re: Bad experience with therapist

Postby Trivago » Fri Aug 16, 2019 3:23 am

You walked into that one rather nicely.
Wonder, had I reversed the order of the responses previously would your answer have been any different?
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