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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby TheUnknownofall » Sat May 11, 2019 7:09 pm

Arlighty,

People have been shouting tons at me, my father being the main one overall.
Seeing as we are both "hot headed" altough I'd say I am way more calm and less impulsive, well I tend to keep impulses to myself.
It does escalate when I feel like bashing out and we'd get into real fights.
Altough now, seeing as our relationship is way calmer now there is no one really who gets on my bad side.

I have been shouted at in work environments, but that was not something I cared about so I felt no need to do anything about it. Aside from that some random people on the street and what not sure, but again, I did not care.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby IDoNotExist » Wed May 15, 2019 6:25 pm

I’d feel like that person is an idiot.
Of course this is hypocritical considering that I lose my temper randomly.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby ArchCannon » Wed Jul 10, 2019 4:47 pm

Reaper wrote:
Manners73 wrote:
I like it when people threaten me. The threat of violence excites me. There's always that little bit of hope that they'll actually try to follow through so we can really get down to business.

Enemies can make life interesting.


There's not much to be excited about. People who send online threats are usually wet wipes who'd never follow in on them.

I myself don't like physical violence, being kind of a pacifist.
I'm all for psychological warfare though. After all, mental scars and wounds stick around for longer than physical ones.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby Manners73 » Wed Jul 10, 2019 7:41 pm

Brandon1 wrote:i typically become aggressive when people yell at me


A sense of achievement I suppose.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby saucygirl31 » Thu Jul 11, 2019 1:07 pm

50% of the time i yell back

i yell back if they have a good argument and i need to stand up, but i dont if they are just being stupid
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby Manners73 » Thu Jul 11, 2019 4:44 pm

In the past I can remember asking the person who is yelling why they are yelling.

This can make them get even more madder depending on who the person is.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby saucygirl31 » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:12 pm

yup

im really good at deescalating situations tho like if someones yelling at me i just say "ok" or "yeah, totally". then they usually stop. easy. other times i just talk them through it and they realize they have no reason to be mad. but again, if they have a good argument against me then ill yell right back and start threatening to kill them in their sleep on some occasions lol
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby Manners73 » Thu Jul 11, 2019 5:51 pm

When I was a kid my stepmother was very abusive and she was always shouting and ranting on and on and on and I learned to just say "oh sit down will ya" and she used to go absutely sick.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby saucygirl31 » Fri Jul 12, 2019 2:25 pm

if i had any abuse at all as a child, it would be my dad yelling. i didnt turn into a yeller, i just have anger problems.

other than that, not sure where my personality got constructed.
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Re: how do you feel when people yell at you?

Postby Manners73 » Fri Jul 12, 2019 3:16 pm

I don't even think I've got a personality disorder to be honest.

But if I have it would be due to abuse.

Aaaaarrrrrrggggggg!

I'm off work for a week now so I'm gonna get fuct.
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