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Bad influence

Postby CandleInTheWindow » Mon Dec 24, 2018 11:27 pm

Have you ever been accused of being a bad influence in your life?

How has this affected your life?

Did it make your behaviour worse?
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Re: Bad influence

Postby xdisconnectedx » Tue Dec 25, 2018 12:07 pm

No but I had many friends that were probably a bad influence. At least my parents and some other friends said that. It affected me in a way that I got even more antisocial. For example me and those friends stabbed/destroyed many car tires with a knive. They changed me, I wouldn't have done that in the time before I knew those friends.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby CandleInTheWindow » Tue Dec 25, 2018 6:41 pm

A lot of people said I was a bad influence when I was younger and a lot of parents stopped their children from associating with me.

It didn't really bother me at the time because I just always found new people to have fun with.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby caspin » Tue Dec 25, 2018 7:19 pm

CandleInTheWindow wrote:A lot of people said I was a bad influence when I was younger and a lot of parents stopped their children from associating with me.

It didn't really bother me at the time because I just always found new people to have fun with.

It bothers you, you have made a thread about it. Use logic, it works.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby CandleInTheWindow » Tue Dec 25, 2018 7:25 pm

caspin wrote:
CandleInTheWindow wrote:A lot of people said I was a bad influence when I was younger and a lot of parents stopped their children from associating with me.

It didn't really bother me at the time because I just always found new people to have fun with.

It bothers you, you have made a thread about it. Use logic, it works.


It's not so much that it bothers me. I'm just trying to figure things out since my brother died.

I don't have aspd but I was brought up by people with these disorders.

I enjoyed wreaking havok as a child but I'm now thinking that my behaviour was learnt.

I'm just working through stuff that's all. It is helping me to come to terms with things.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby caspin » Tue Dec 25, 2018 7:43 pm

Good, do that.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby CandleInTheWindow » Tue Dec 25, 2018 8:05 pm

Thank you.

I think maybe I should concentrate on the living.

Thinking about what's dead and done will only make me get psychosis or something.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby DaturaInnoxia » Tue Dec 25, 2018 11:42 pm

I was accused of this by many of my friends' parents in my school years from 5th or 6th grade onwards.
No idea why.
I felt isolated, betrayed and like no one liked me which later became ok when I realized I hate people too.
It encouraged me to only care about my own beliefs and values - which, to be honest, are better than most people's anyways.
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Re: Bad influence

Postby xdisconnectedx » Wed Dec 26, 2018 1:59 am

If I had a little brother I would be a bad influence. Definitely :lol:
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Re: Bad influence

Postby Jonna » Wed Dec 26, 2018 2:25 am

It has not affected my life at all.
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