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I am Depressed, Anxious and Have Buried many Loved ones .

Postby Dayzee » Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:17 am

I am not sure where I belong. This has been a very difficult 15 years. I have been blessed but I have lost. I buried a husband who was my soul mate, in 1992 after 11 months of marriage. he was killed in an auto accident. I married again in 1994. Because he really needed me. I buried him in 2006 from Bone cancer, and I took care of him to the end. I lost my mom in 1995, I cared for and buried my mother in law from Alzheimers in 2002, my older brother died in December of 2007, and lastly, my father in law, who had been ill for a time physically, had kidney failure 2 weeks after my husband dies, and I cared for him until he dies in January 2008.
Those are the facts. There are many more, but those ar ethe major changes that affected my life.

It is now time to take care of me, and I have never done that before. I am at a loss. I am trying to find my way, but there were situations with all of these phases, some, especially the last 2 leaving me very bitter and angry and I know I must work through them. A bit at a time.

I need help.
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Postby jasmin » Fri Jun 06, 2008 5:40 pm

Hey, Dayzee! Welcome to the forum. You've been through a lot and you deserve to take care of yourself now. Maybe you should try to find a hobby, something you like. Try to take some classes that would involve meeting new people and making friends, if you want.
You could keep a diary and remind yourself that you are a good person and your own human being. Do something that you've always wanted to do. You are welcome to post here any time and we'll be here to listen.
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Postby sweethappyprincess » Sun Jul 27, 2008 9:07 pm

There is never too late to take c are of yourself. So start caring yourself right now.
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Postby juanluso » Fri Aug 01, 2008 5:07 pm

First thing keep in mind be while taking decisions and after taking any decision do not think about any bad evils which harms you.
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Postby jaunty_mellifluous » Wed Aug 06, 2008 2:24 pm

I feel sorry for you. Sorry.
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Postby johnkiggs » Sun Dec 28, 2008 5:36 am

So sad but still . you definately need a long trip for about 10-12 away from family to get your mental level up!

Even recently had a story about how people in these short stories try to do suicidal attacks to themself because of this uncommon stories. Well people should start have positive thoughts for the next day and live happily and those should do some more mental check ups or something or find something on internet which would help their minds!
just for them i would recommend to visit those site's like * edited by mod* , to get them up and rolling

Cheers

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